I have something to say and It鈥檚 how I truly feel.
The day Sarah asked you out without my permission was because she was upset I had those feelings for you not her. I wish she never had done that but I can鈥檛 change the past.
I鈥檓 very shy, and that is the reason we hardy know each other, bus now I want to get to know you, and learn your every move. I鈥檝e been thinking about you each and every day. Now I鈥檝e realized how much I care about you and would never let me or anyone else do anything to hurt you. You鈥檙e a very wise young lady for never letting any boy break your heart like others around us, I respect that.
You鈥檙e that girl I always pictures meeting in life and I鈥檓 so surprised It was within my first week of high school. I don鈥檛 like you just because you鈥檙e beautiful or pretty, I love you because you鈥檙e amazing in so many ways! Every time I see you in a crowd or hear your voice in a thousand I feel like my heart belongs to you. So many feelings, I feel lost in my thoughts.
I know I鈥檓 not perfect but nobody is. From what I do know, I鈥檓 usually cuddly, fun to be around, and have a strong heart for others. But you... you mean so much, I鈥檓 lost when I speak, and don鈥檛 know what to say.
No I鈥檓 not trying to ask you out, but maybe being my Valentine would get us somewhere, just maybe?
So Would You Be My First Real Valentine?
If I鈥檓 too late asking or you鈥檙e still not ready that鈥檚 ok, I understand.
Please reply or I鈥檒l be so heart broken
Such a big load off my chest, But I鈥檓 dam glad I said it! I hope I send this to you, I don鈥檛 know what I鈥檒l do if I don鈥檛.
if I give it to her should i write it or print it out on the computer.
If i print it it would be centred and in a readable handwritten font(in a light grey and its called Monotype Corsiva font.
What Do You Think And When Should I Give It To Her?
I think It could be better!|||Handwrite it definately, because it really shows you care for what you%26#039;ve written and its really sweet! Give it to her on Valentines day most certainly because she%26#039;ll be really caught up in the romantics of the day and will probably love it even more, give it to her with a rose on the envelope also, that would be gorgeous! I think what you%26#039;ve written is absolutely beautiful - so be proud of it! and you obviously really mean it so she%26#039;s out of her mind if she doesn%26#039;t give you a chance.
Sunday 5 June 2011
I hate feeling this way (long but 10 points?)?
Before I say anything, I%26#039;d just like to say that I feel happy for my sister, but it%26#039;s so unfair?
Well, ever since I was a kid - I was soo shy and quiet and kinda mischievous, she%26#039;s 2 years old than me and I feel like she has everything and I have nothing?
When she was in grade 6, she changed schools (and so did I once I reached grade 6 in my old school) and well she managed to get friends and stuff, but when I changed schools, I was so terrified.. I never talked in class, I didn%26#039;t even know how to talk the %26quot;mother%26quot; language (not english), I had alot of trouble growing up.. my sister pretended not to know me that well in school, she just teases me at school and guess why I made a few friends? %26#039;Cause I had a %26quot;older sister%26quot; and that was like a %26quot;popular%26quot; thing.. I never knew it until maybe in grade 9.. I was so depressed about this, that I would beg my mom almost every week that I wanted to skip school and I did but I never told her the real reason, just used the common excuse %26quot;I hate school%26quot;. One day at school, (grade 10 now) whenever I talk to my friends about my sister and stuff like %26quot;she pissed me off%26quot;.. I don%26#039;t know why the **** they would defend her and say %26quot;it%26#039;s your fault%26quot; and stuff.. they barely know her, funny thing is my sister told me %26quot;your friends are losers%26quot;.. I just want to see the look on their faces if they knew she said that but I wouldn%26#039;t dare really.
Another thing, my mom is a doctor and my sister is studying to be a doctor .. she%26#039;s still learning anyways, she%26#039;s always going to have that %26quot;connection%26quot; with my mom.. since they both share something.. I can%26#039;t connect with my mom that way + she treats me like a kid.. whenever I ask her about something she just responds with a short answer and says that it%26#039;s nothing important but I still want to effing know, ugh -_- ..
Her handwriting, social skills, speaking + she likes reading books and she has a mobile, iPod and I have none of that..
If my family had to pick between me and my sister on who gets to %26quot;live%26quot;, they%26#039;d pick my sister in a heartbeat.
How can I stop feeling this way? :l
P.S. I only have 2 things good about me, my long/thick hair and my weight/body.. I try so hard to maintain my weight and keep my hair healthy.. because if I lost both I know I%26#039;d be left with nothing.|||im sure there are so many better things about you, and don%26#039;t give up trying on stuff...my parents always say to me, whatever happens with mates and that when your younger wont bother you when youre older, but i know it%26#039;s hard. I think you should look at all your qualities, any hobbies you can take up, to make youreself feel proud, and your parents might notice you more. Popular people are usually the gobby ones, and tbh they dont work hard and strive to achieve, so don%26#039;t try to be something your not. Speak to your parents or a close relative who might have a word, or tell your sister how you feel, when you speak up to her she will realise she can%26#039;t push you around no more, you might even grow closer together. Speak to your parents, and explain how you feel, dont forget your mum and dad made you, no matter what you think they love you more than anything, it may seem like they are in favour of your sister more as she is confident and gets involved in more, but why not try something new, boast to your sister, if talking doesn%26#039;t work give her a taste of her own medicine...Look at all the things your sisters not good at, and what she does to make up for it...and do the same, use your wualities...a nice saying my teacher told me once... %26quot;shoot for the moon even if you miss you%26#039;ll land amongst the stars%26quot; ...good luck|||okie, two things;; one, how come you care about tht?
you and your sister are different, and thats all you should care about.
two different personalities, are guud. and, you shouldnt even feel jealous about your sister at all, cause all you have tht she dnt thn, is the hair, the weight and bodyy.
yeah, you have to be scared to going into a newww skool, cause iam the same way, but, it only depends on how you talk to ppl, and thts how you get guud friends, without your sister bugging into ya life. and, in the first place, you shouldnt even talk about your sister with ya friends tht much, cause, ya never no wat she does when your not with her everyy minute, in everyy second.
now, about ya mom, your mom is juss greedyy lolzz if you are the baby in the family, thn she will act like tht, cause ya still the kid in thee familyy no matter wat:) if your not the kid in the family, she%26#039;s jussa stick-up to you to make you feel bad lolz
thts all i have to sayy :)|||You already know what your problem is, you are envious of your sister and instead of being happy for her, you have built-up this huge resentment. It sounds like you are all%26quot;me me me%26quot; and have no thought for either your Mother or your sister. You will never be happy as long as you carry this huge feeling of being %26quot;put upon%26quot; by everyone else in the world. Try to start smiling and say something nice even if you have to lie a little bit.|||talk to your sister and parents about it. get them to understand how you feel.
Well, ever since I was a kid - I was soo shy and quiet and kinda mischievous, she%26#039;s 2 years old than me and I feel like she has everything and I have nothing?
When she was in grade 6, she changed schools (and so did I once I reached grade 6 in my old school) and well she managed to get friends and stuff, but when I changed schools, I was so terrified.. I never talked in class, I didn%26#039;t even know how to talk the %26quot;mother%26quot; language (not english), I had alot of trouble growing up.. my sister pretended not to know me that well in school, she just teases me at school and guess why I made a few friends? %26#039;Cause I had a %26quot;older sister%26quot; and that was like a %26quot;popular%26quot; thing.. I never knew it until maybe in grade 9.. I was so depressed about this, that I would beg my mom almost every week that I wanted to skip school and I did but I never told her the real reason, just used the common excuse %26quot;I hate school%26quot;. One day at school, (grade 10 now) whenever I talk to my friends about my sister and stuff like %26quot;she pissed me off%26quot;.. I don%26#039;t know why the **** they would defend her and say %26quot;it%26#039;s your fault%26quot; and stuff.. they barely know her, funny thing is my sister told me %26quot;your friends are losers%26quot;.. I just want to see the look on their faces if they knew she said that but I wouldn%26#039;t dare really.
Another thing, my mom is a doctor and my sister is studying to be a doctor .. she%26#039;s still learning anyways, she%26#039;s always going to have that %26quot;connection%26quot; with my mom.. since they both share something.. I can%26#039;t connect with my mom that way + she treats me like a kid.. whenever I ask her about something she just responds with a short answer and says that it%26#039;s nothing important but I still want to effing know, ugh -_- ..
Her handwriting, social skills, speaking + she likes reading books and she has a mobile, iPod and I have none of that..
If my family had to pick between me and my sister on who gets to %26quot;live%26quot;, they%26#039;d pick my sister in a heartbeat.
How can I stop feeling this way? :l
P.S. I only have 2 things good about me, my long/thick hair and my weight/body.. I try so hard to maintain my weight and keep my hair healthy.. because if I lost both I know I%26#039;d be left with nothing.|||im sure there are so many better things about you, and don%26#039;t give up trying on stuff...my parents always say to me, whatever happens with mates and that when your younger wont bother you when youre older, but i know it%26#039;s hard. I think you should look at all your qualities, any hobbies you can take up, to make youreself feel proud, and your parents might notice you more. Popular people are usually the gobby ones, and tbh they dont work hard and strive to achieve, so don%26#039;t try to be something your not. Speak to your parents or a close relative who might have a word, or tell your sister how you feel, when you speak up to her she will realise she can%26#039;t push you around no more, you might even grow closer together. Speak to your parents, and explain how you feel, dont forget your mum and dad made you, no matter what you think they love you more than anything, it may seem like they are in favour of your sister more as she is confident and gets involved in more, but why not try something new, boast to your sister, if talking doesn%26#039;t work give her a taste of her own medicine...Look at all the things your sisters not good at, and what she does to make up for it...and do the same, use your wualities...a nice saying my teacher told me once... %26quot;shoot for the moon even if you miss you%26#039;ll land amongst the stars%26quot; ...good luck|||okie, two things;; one, how come you care about tht?
you and your sister are different, and thats all you should care about.
two different personalities, are guud. and, you shouldnt even feel jealous about your sister at all, cause all you have tht she dnt thn, is the hair, the weight and bodyy.
yeah, you have to be scared to going into a newww skool, cause iam the same way, but, it only depends on how you talk to ppl, and thts how you get guud friends, without your sister bugging into ya life. and, in the first place, you shouldnt even talk about your sister with ya friends tht much, cause, ya never no wat she does when your not with her everyy minute, in everyy second.
now, about ya mom, your mom is juss greedyy lolzz if you are the baby in the family, thn she will act like tht, cause ya still the kid in thee familyy no matter wat:) if your not the kid in the family, she%26#039;s jussa stick-up to you to make you feel bad lolz
thts all i have to sayy :)|||You already know what your problem is, you are envious of your sister and instead of being happy for her, you have built-up this huge resentment. It sounds like you are all%26quot;me me me%26quot; and have no thought for either your Mother or your sister. You will never be happy as long as you carry this huge feeling of being %26quot;put upon%26quot; by everyone else in the world. Try to start smiling and say something nice even if you have to lie a little bit.|||talk to your sister and parents about it. get them to understand how you feel.
A question for Christians?
Before I ask my question please have the time and respect to read this to the end because many Christians only read a few lines and then answer my question without reading the whole thing. Cheers.
Why do many Christians only believe what they want to believe? For instance, when I bring up the Sabbath commandment most Christians will scoff. But I will prove how their logic fails:
Ask a Christian if they keep God%26#039;s 10 commandments. Most will say yes. Then ask them if they keep the fourth commandment. Most will say no because we are not under the law, but yet they believe we should still keep the other 9, but ignore the fourth.
Other Christians will say they do keep the fourth commandment because they go to church on Sunday. What they fail to realise is that the catholic church changed it from Saturday to Sunday with NO SCRIPTUAL AUTHORITY. There is no scripture in the Bible that commands us to keep Sunday as the new Sabbath day. It%26#039;s all based on traditions of men in the church and not the Bible.
Some Christians think that they keep the Sabbath 7 days a week by resting in Jesus. But yet there is no commandment in the Bible that tells us to forget about the 7th day Sabbath because we now rest in Jesus. Infact if you read the book of Acts you will see that the Sabbath was being kept, even by Gentiles, long after Jesus went back to heaven. To keep the Sabbath means to rest from all your work and worship God. Yes we should worship God 7 days a week, but the Sabbath is a day of rest. If you were to keep the Sabbath every day then that would make you a lazy person because you would be resting 7 days a week.
Some people like to use Colossians 2:16, which they rip out of context. Colossians 2:16 is referring to the yearly sabbaths that were written on paper with food and drink and festivals etc. Colossians 2:16 is not referring to the 7th day Sabbath of the 10 commandments. Read a little bit before Colossians 2:16 and it talks about the handwriting being nailed to the cross--the handwriting of Moses. Notice how it says %26quot;let no one judge you concerning idol worship, adultry, coveting, lying etc%26quot; The law of Moses written on paper was done away with. The law of God (10 commandments) still stand--Luke 16:17
Whoever breaks one commandment is guilty of all--James 2:10.
The fact of the matter is is that if the catholic church had not changed the Sabbath to Sunday, I believe Christians would be going to church on Saturday instead of Sunday.|||Should we keep the Sabbath or not?
Exodus 20:8; 23:12; 31:15; Deuteronomy 5:12; Leviticus 26:2 and Romans 14:5; Colossians 2:16
1.Keep the Sabbath
A.(Exodus 20:8-9) - %26quot;Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy. 9 %26quot;Six days you shall labor and do all your work,
B.(Exodus 23:12) - %26quot;Six days you are to do your work, but on the seventh day you shall cease from labor in order that your ox and your donkey may rest, and the son of your female slave, as well as your stranger, may refresh themselves.%26quot;
C.(Exodus 31:15) - %26quot;For six days work may be done, but on the seventh day there is a sabbath of complete rest, holy to the Lord; whoever does any work on the sabbath day shall surely be put to death.%26quot;
D.(Deuteronomy 5:12) - %26quot;Observe the sabbath day to keep it holy, as the Lord your God commanded you.%26quot;
E.(Leviticus 26:2) - %26quot;You shall keep My sabbaths and reverence My sanctuary; I am the Lord.%26quot;
2.Don%26#039;t keep the Sabbath
A.(Romans 14:5) - %26quot;One man regards one day above another, another regards every day alike. Let each man be fully convinced in his own mind.%26quot;
B.(Colossians 2:16) - %26quot;Therefore let no one act as your judge in regard to food or drink or in respect to a festival or a new moon or a Sabbath day.%26quot;
It was the custom of the Jews to come together on the Sabbath, which is Saturday, cease work, and worship God. Of the 10 commandments listed in Exodus 20:1-17, only nine of them were reinstituted in the New Testament. (Six in Matthew 19:18, murder, adultery, stealing, false witness, honor parents, and worshiping God; Romans 13:9, coveting. Worshiping God properly covers the first three commandments) The one that was not reaffirmed was the one about the Sabbath. Instead, Jesus said that He is the Lord of the Sabbath (Matt. 12:8).
In creation God rested on the seventh day. But, since God is all powerful, He doesn’t get tired. He doesn’t need to take a break and rest. So, why does it say that He rested? The reason is simple: Mark 2:27 says, %26quot;The Sabbath was made for man, and not man for the Sabbath.%26quot; In other words, God established the Sabbath as a rest for His people, not because He needed a break, but because we are mortal and need a time of rest, of focus on God. In this, our spirits and bodies are both renewed.
The O.T. system of Law required keeping the Sabbath as part of the overall moral, legal, and sacrificial system by which the Jewish people satisfied God’s requirements for behavior, government, and forgiveness of sins. The Sabbath was part of the Law in that sense. In order to %26quot;remain%26quot; in favor with God, you had to also keep the Sabbath. If it was not kept, then the person was in sin and would often be punished (Ezekiel 18:4; Rom. 6:23; Deut. 13:1-9; Num. 35:31; Lev. 20:2, etc.).
But with Jesus’ atonement, and justification by faith (Rom. 5:1), we no longer are required to keep the Law and hence the Sabbath which was only a shadow of things to come (Col. 2:16-17). We are not under Law, but grace (Rom. 6:14-15). The Sabbath is fulfilled in Jesus because in Him we have rest (Matt. 11:28). We are not under obligation to keep the Law and this goes for the Sabbath as well.
http://www.carm.org/bible-difficulties/g…|||I assure you , not only Christians %26quot;only read a few lines and then answer my question without reading the whole thing%26quot; . Others do it as well .|||You ask for respect and then you ask,
Why do many Christians only believe what they want to believe?
Hmm
Galations 5: You have become estranged from Christ, you who attempt to be justified by law; you have fallen from grace. 5 For we through the Spirit eagerly wait for the hope of righteousness by faith.|||Yes, I did read it to the end
Your turn
It is often claimed that “God instituted the Sabbath in Eden” because of the connection between the Sabbath and creation in Exodus 20:11. Although God%26#039;s rest on the seventh day (Genesis 2:3) did foreshadow a future Sabbath law, there is no biblical record of the Sabbath before the children of Israel left the land of Egypt. Nowhere in Scripture is there any hint that Sabbath-keeping was practiced from Adam to Moses.
The Word of God makes it quite clear that Sabbath observance was a special sign between God and Israel: “The Israelites are to observe the Sabbath, celebrating it for the generations to come as a lasting covenant. It will be a sign between me and the Israelites forever, for in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, and on the seventh day he abstained from work and rested” (Exodus 31:16–17).
In Deuteronomy 5, Moses restates the Ten Commandments to the next generation of Israelites. Here, after commanding Sabbath observance in verses 12–14, Moses gives the reason the Sabbath was given to the nation Israel: “Remember that you were slaves in Egypt and that the Lord your God brought you out of there with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm. Therefore the Lord your God has commanded you to observe the Sabbath day” (Deuteronomy 5:15).
God%26#039;s intent for giving the Sabbath to Israel was not that they would remember creation, but that they would remember their Egyptian slavery and the Lord%26#039;s deliverance. Note the requirements for Sabbath-keeping: A person placed under that Sabbath law could not leave his home on the Sabbath (Exodus 16:29), he could not build a fire (Exodus 35:3), and he could not cause anyone else to work (Deuteronomy 5:14). A person breaking the Sabbath law was to be put to death (Exodus 31:15; Numbers 15:32–35).
An examination of New Testament passages shows us four important points: 1) Whenever Christ appears in His resurrected form and the day is mentioned, it is always the first day of the week (Matthew 28:1, 9, 10; Mark 16:9; Luke 24:1, 13, 15; John 20:19, 26). 2) The only time the Sabbath is mentioned from Acts through Revelation it is for evangelistic purposes to the Jews and the setting is usually in a synagogue (Acts chapters 13–18). Paul wrote, “to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews” (1 Corinthians 9:20). Paul did not go to the synagogue to fellowship with and edify the saints, but to convict and save the lost. 3) Once Paul states “from now on I will go to the Gentiles” (Acts 18:6), the Sabbath is never again mentioned. And 4) instead of suggesting adherence to the Sabbath day, the remainder of the New Testament implies the opposite (including the one exception to point 3 above, found in Colossians 2:16).
Looking more closely at point 4 above will reveal that there is no obligation for the New Testament believer to keep the Sabbath, and will also show that the idea of a Sunday “Christian Sabbath” is also unscriptural. As discussed above, there is one time the Sabbath is mentioned after Paul began to focus on the Gentiles, “Therefore do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day. These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however, is found in Christ.” (Colossians 2:16–17). The Jewish Sabbath was abolished at the cross where Christ “canceled the written code, with its regulations” (Colossians 2:14).
This idea is repeated more than once in the New Testament: “One man considers one day more sacred than another; another man considers every day alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. He who regards one day as special, does so to the Lord” (Romans 14:5–6a). “But now that you know God — or rather are known by God — how is it that you are turning back to those weak and miserable principles? Do you wish to be enslaved by them all over again? You are observing special days and months and seasons and years” (Galatians 4:9–10).
But some claim that a mandate by Constantine in A.D. 321 “changed” the Sabbath from Saturday to Sunday. On what day did the early church meet for worship? Scripture never mentions any Sabbath (Saturday) gatherings by believers for fellowship or worship. However, there are clear passages that mention the first day of the week. For instance, Acts 20:7 states that “on the first day of the week we came together to break bread.” In 1 Corinthians 16:2 Paul urges the Corinthian believers “on the first day of every week, each one of you should set aside a sum of money in keeping with his income.” Since Paul designates this offering as “service” in 2 Corinthians 9:12, this collection must have been linked with the Sunday worship service of the Christian assembly. Historically Sunday, not Saturday, was the normal meeting day for Christians in the church, and its practice dates back to the first century.
The Sabbath was given to Israel, not the church. The Sabbath is still Saturday, not Sunday, and has never been changed. But the Sabbath is part of the Old Testament Law, and Christians are free from the bondage of the Law (Galatians 4:1-26; Romans 6:14). Sabbath keeping is not required of the Christian—be it Saturday or Sunday. The first day of the week, Sunday, the Lord%26#039;s Day (Revelation 1:10) celebrates the New Creation, with Christ as our resurrected Head. We are not obligated to follow the Mosaic Sabbath—resting, but are now free to follow the risen Christ—serving. The Apostle Paul said that each individual Christian should decide whether to observe a Sabbath rest, “One man considers one day more sacred than another; another man considers every day alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind” (Romans 14:5). We are to worship God every day, not just on Saturday or Sunday.
The End of the Law: Mosaic Covenant in Pauline Theology
http://www.christianbook.com/the-law-mos…|||Let us therefore fear, lest, a promise being left us of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to come short of it.
There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God.
For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his.
Let us labour therefore to enter into that rest, lest any man fall after the same example of unbelief.
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
God has entered His rest -- For he spake in a certain place of the seventh day on this wise, And God did rest the seventh day from all his works.
So all joined to Him must rest with Him.
You carry on working at your Sabbath observance and so remain in your separation from God. The Jews too keep the Sabbath because they too reject Christ.
Let others be joined to God and rest from such works.|||1) Ask a Christian if they keep God%26#039;s 10 commandments. Most will say yes. Then ask them if they keep the fourth commandment. Most will say no because we are not under the law, but yet they believe we should still keep the other 9, but ignore the fourth.
What you have uncovered here is an logical error in the reasoning of the particular Christians to whom you spoke - not any logical error in Christian doctrine.
Analogy: Ask an atheist if the Earth rotates about its axis. Most will say %26quot;yes%26quot;. Then ask them if they can prove that it does. Most will show you a science book or web site that claims that the Earth rotates about its axis. When you then ask them how that is proof, most will give you a response similar in unreasonableness to the response you quote from Christians.
2) What they fail to realise is that the catholic church changed it from Saturday to Sunday with NO SCRIPTUAL AUTHORITY.
? About 3/4 of the world%26#039;s Christians accept the authority of that decision without Scripture and realizing that it is not and never was based on Scripture. Of the other 1/4 or so, I%26#039;m guessing that most either don%26#039;t realize it is not based on Scriptural authority or don%26#039;t believe that they need to observe the Biblical Sabbath.
So - now that we know you are addressing this question ONLY to Protestants that do not observe the Sabbath in the manner required of Jewish people in the Bible, we can continue.....
3) Infact if you read the book of Acts you will see that the Sabbath was being kept, even by Gentiles, long after Jesus went back to heaven.
Read Acts 15. Please.
Also: what Gentiles were keeping the Jewish Sabbath in Acts?
4) To keep the Sabbath means to rest from all your work and worship God.
The Bible describes it differently (though the %26quot;no work%26quot; thing is accurate).
5) Colossians 2:16 is referring to the yearly sabbaths that were written on paper with food and drink and festivals
What is your evidence that this passage refers only to the annual Sabbaths? You have provided none. Should we believe you because you say it is true?
6) The law of Moses written on paper was done away with. The law of God (10 commandments) still stand
The Decalogue is indisputably a part of the Mosaic Law. I know of no appropriately-accredited scholar who suggests otherwise.
7) Whoever breaks one commandment is guilty of all
Yes - now YOU read the context - particularly v 12
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?sea…
8) The fact of the matter is is that if the catholic church had not changed the Sabbath to Sunday, I believe Christians would be going to church on Saturday instead of Sunday.
Probably true, but entirely irrelevant.
Jim, http://www.bible-reviews.com|||You are right.
The 7th day is Saturday.
But this doesn%26#039;t mean worshipping God on Sundays is wrong.
Lightning from the East%26#039;s answer explains it perfectly.|||Agree,
Sunday was the day roman pagans used to worship sun.
Why do many Christians only believe what they want to believe? For instance, when I bring up the Sabbath commandment most Christians will scoff. But I will prove how their logic fails:
Ask a Christian if they keep God%26#039;s 10 commandments. Most will say yes. Then ask them if they keep the fourth commandment. Most will say no because we are not under the law, but yet they believe we should still keep the other 9, but ignore the fourth.
Other Christians will say they do keep the fourth commandment because they go to church on Sunday. What they fail to realise is that the catholic church changed it from Saturday to Sunday with NO SCRIPTUAL AUTHORITY. There is no scripture in the Bible that commands us to keep Sunday as the new Sabbath day. It%26#039;s all based on traditions of men in the church and not the Bible.
Some Christians think that they keep the Sabbath 7 days a week by resting in Jesus. But yet there is no commandment in the Bible that tells us to forget about the 7th day Sabbath because we now rest in Jesus. Infact if you read the book of Acts you will see that the Sabbath was being kept, even by Gentiles, long after Jesus went back to heaven. To keep the Sabbath means to rest from all your work and worship God. Yes we should worship God 7 days a week, but the Sabbath is a day of rest. If you were to keep the Sabbath every day then that would make you a lazy person because you would be resting 7 days a week.
Some people like to use Colossians 2:16, which they rip out of context. Colossians 2:16 is referring to the yearly sabbaths that were written on paper with food and drink and festivals etc. Colossians 2:16 is not referring to the 7th day Sabbath of the 10 commandments. Read a little bit before Colossians 2:16 and it talks about the handwriting being nailed to the cross--the handwriting of Moses. Notice how it says %26quot;let no one judge you concerning idol worship, adultry, coveting, lying etc%26quot; The law of Moses written on paper was done away with. The law of God (10 commandments) still stand--Luke 16:17
Whoever breaks one commandment is guilty of all--James 2:10.
The fact of the matter is is that if the catholic church had not changed the Sabbath to Sunday, I believe Christians would be going to church on Saturday instead of Sunday.|||Should we keep the Sabbath or not?
Exodus 20:8; 23:12; 31:15; Deuteronomy 5:12; Leviticus 26:2 and Romans 14:5; Colossians 2:16
1.Keep the Sabbath
A.(Exodus 20:8-9) - %26quot;Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy. 9 %26quot;Six days you shall labor and do all your work,
B.(Exodus 23:12) - %26quot;Six days you are to do your work, but on the seventh day you shall cease from labor in order that your ox and your donkey may rest, and the son of your female slave, as well as your stranger, may refresh themselves.%26quot;
C.(Exodus 31:15) - %26quot;For six days work may be done, but on the seventh day there is a sabbath of complete rest, holy to the Lord; whoever does any work on the sabbath day shall surely be put to death.%26quot;
D.(Deuteronomy 5:12) - %26quot;Observe the sabbath day to keep it holy, as the Lord your God commanded you.%26quot;
E.(Leviticus 26:2) - %26quot;You shall keep My sabbaths and reverence My sanctuary; I am the Lord.%26quot;
2.Don%26#039;t keep the Sabbath
A.(Romans 14:5) - %26quot;One man regards one day above another, another regards every day alike. Let each man be fully convinced in his own mind.%26quot;
B.(Colossians 2:16) - %26quot;Therefore let no one act as your judge in regard to food or drink or in respect to a festival or a new moon or a Sabbath day.%26quot;
It was the custom of the Jews to come together on the Sabbath, which is Saturday, cease work, and worship God. Of the 10 commandments listed in Exodus 20:1-17, only nine of them were reinstituted in the New Testament. (Six in Matthew 19:18, murder, adultery, stealing, false witness, honor parents, and worshiping God; Romans 13:9, coveting. Worshiping God properly covers the first three commandments) The one that was not reaffirmed was the one about the Sabbath. Instead, Jesus said that He is the Lord of the Sabbath (Matt. 12:8).
In creation God rested on the seventh day. But, since God is all powerful, He doesn’t get tired. He doesn’t need to take a break and rest. So, why does it say that He rested? The reason is simple: Mark 2:27 says, %26quot;The Sabbath was made for man, and not man for the Sabbath.%26quot; In other words, God established the Sabbath as a rest for His people, not because He needed a break, but because we are mortal and need a time of rest, of focus on God. In this, our spirits and bodies are both renewed.
The O.T. system of Law required keeping the Sabbath as part of the overall moral, legal, and sacrificial system by which the Jewish people satisfied God’s requirements for behavior, government, and forgiveness of sins. The Sabbath was part of the Law in that sense. In order to %26quot;remain%26quot; in favor with God, you had to also keep the Sabbath. If it was not kept, then the person was in sin and would often be punished (Ezekiel 18:4; Rom. 6:23; Deut. 13:1-9; Num. 35:31; Lev. 20:2, etc.).
But with Jesus’ atonement, and justification by faith (Rom. 5:1), we no longer are required to keep the Law and hence the Sabbath which was only a shadow of things to come (Col. 2:16-17). We are not under Law, but grace (Rom. 6:14-15). The Sabbath is fulfilled in Jesus because in Him we have rest (Matt. 11:28). We are not under obligation to keep the Law and this goes for the Sabbath as well.
http://www.carm.org/bible-difficulties/g…|||I assure you , not only Christians %26quot;only read a few lines and then answer my question without reading the whole thing%26quot; . Others do it as well .|||You ask for respect and then you ask,
Why do many Christians only believe what they want to believe?
Hmm
Galations 5: You have become estranged from Christ, you who attempt to be justified by law; you have fallen from grace. 5 For we through the Spirit eagerly wait for the hope of righteousness by faith.|||Yes, I did read it to the end
Your turn
It is often claimed that “God instituted the Sabbath in Eden” because of the connection between the Sabbath and creation in Exodus 20:11. Although God%26#039;s rest on the seventh day (Genesis 2:3) did foreshadow a future Sabbath law, there is no biblical record of the Sabbath before the children of Israel left the land of Egypt. Nowhere in Scripture is there any hint that Sabbath-keeping was practiced from Adam to Moses.
The Word of God makes it quite clear that Sabbath observance was a special sign between God and Israel: “The Israelites are to observe the Sabbath, celebrating it for the generations to come as a lasting covenant. It will be a sign between me and the Israelites forever, for in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, and on the seventh day he abstained from work and rested” (Exodus 31:16–17).
In Deuteronomy 5, Moses restates the Ten Commandments to the next generation of Israelites. Here, after commanding Sabbath observance in verses 12–14, Moses gives the reason the Sabbath was given to the nation Israel: “Remember that you were slaves in Egypt and that the Lord your God brought you out of there with a mighty hand and an outstretched arm. Therefore the Lord your God has commanded you to observe the Sabbath day” (Deuteronomy 5:15).
God%26#039;s intent for giving the Sabbath to Israel was not that they would remember creation, but that they would remember their Egyptian slavery and the Lord%26#039;s deliverance. Note the requirements for Sabbath-keeping: A person placed under that Sabbath law could not leave his home on the Sabbath (Exodus 16:29), he could not build a fire (Exodus 35:3), and he could not cause anyone else to work (Deuteronomy 5:14). A person breaking the Sabbath law was to be put to death (Exodus 31:15; Numbers 15:32–35).
An examination of New Testament passages shows us four important points: 1) Whenever Christ appears in His resurrected form and the day is mentioned, it is always the first day of the week (Matthew 28:1, 9, 10; Mark 16:9; Luke 24:1, 13, 15; John 20:19, 26). 2) The only time the Sabbath is mentioned from Acts through Revelation it is for evangelistic purposes to the Jews and the setting is usually in a synagogue (Acts chapters 13–18). Paul wrote, “to the Jews I became as a Jew, that I might win Jews” (1 Corinthians 9:20). Paul did not go to the synagogue to fellowship with and edify the saints, but to convict and save the lost. 3) Once Paul states “from now on I will go to the Gentiles” (Acts 18:6), the Sabbath is never again mentioned. And 4) instead of suggesting adherence to the Sabbath day, the remainder of the New Testament implies the opposite (including the one exception to point 3 above, found in Colossians 2:16).
Looking more closely at point 4 above will reveal that there is no obligation for the New Testament believer to keep the Sabbath, and will also show that the idea of a Sunday “Christian Sabbath” is also unscriptural. As discussed above, there is one time the Sabbath is mentioned after Paul began to focus on the Gentiles, “Therefore do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, a New Moon celebration or a Sabbath day. These are a shadow of the things that were to come; the reality, however, is found in Christ.” (Colossians 2:16–17). The Jewish Sabbath was abolished at the cross where Christ “canceled the written code, with its regulations” (Colossians 2:14).
This idea is repeated more than once in the New Testament: “One man considers one day more sacred than another; another man considers every day alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind. He who regards one day as special, does so to the Lord” (Romans 14:5–6a). “But now that you know God — or rather are known by God — how is it that you are turning back to those weak and miserable principles? Do you wish to be enslaved by them all over again? You are observing special days and months and seasons and years” (Galatians 4:9–10).
But some claim that a mandate by Constantine in A.D. 321 “changed” the Sabbath from Saturday to Sunday. On what day did the early church meet for worship? Scripture never mentions any Sabbath (Saturday) gatherings by believers for fellowship or worship. However, there are clear passages that mention the first day of the week. For instance, Acts 20:7 states that “on the first day of the week we came together to break bread.” In 1 Corinthians 16:2 Paul urges the Corinthian believers “on the first day of every week, each one of you should set aside a sum of money in keeping with his income.” Since Paul designates this offering as “service” in 2 Corinthians 9:12, this collection must have been linked with the Sunday worship service of the Christian assembly. Historically Sunday, not Saturday, was the normal meeting day for Christians in the church, and its practice dates back to the first century.
The Sabbath was given to Israel, not the church. The Sabbath is still Saturday, not Sunday, and has never been changed. But the Sabbath is part of the Old Testament Law, and Christians are free from the bondage of the Law (Galatians 4:1-26; Romans 6:14). Sabbath keeping is not required of the Christian—be it Saturday or Sunday. The first day of the week, Sunday, the Lord%26#039;s Day (Revelation 1:10) celebrates the New Creation, with Christ as our resurrected Head. We are not obligated to follow the Mosaic Sabbath—resting, but are now free to follow the risen Christ—serving. The Apostle Paul said that each individual Christian should decide whether to observe a Sabbath rest, “One man considers one day more sacred than another; another man considers every day alike. Each one should be fully convinced in his own mind” (Romans 14:5). We are to worship God every day, not just on Saturday or Sunday.
The End of the Law: Mosaic Covenant in Pauline Theology
http://www.christianbook.com/the-law-mos…|||Let us therefore fear, lest, a promise being left us of entering into his rest, any of you should seem to come short of it.
There remaineth therefore a rest to the people of God.
For he that is entered into his rest, he also hath ceased from his own works, as God did from his.
Let us labour therefore to enter into that rest, lest any man fall after the same example of unbelief.
Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.
For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.
God has entered His rest -- For he spake in a certain place of the seventh day on this wise, And God did rest the seventh day from all his works.
So all joined to Him must rest with Him.
You carry on working at your Sabbath observance and so remain in your separation from God. The Jews too keep the Sabbath because they too reject Christ.
Let others be joined to God and rest from such works.|||1) Ask a Christian if they keep God%26#039;s 10 commandments. Most will say yes. Then ask them if they keep the fourth commandment. Most will say no because we are not under the law, but yet they believe we should still keep the other 9, but ignore the fourth.
What you have uncovered here is an logical error in the reasoning of the particular Christians to whom you spoke - not any logical error in Christian doctrine.
Analogy: Ask an atheist if the Earth rotates about its axis. Most will say %26quot;yes%26quot;. Then ask them if they can prove that it does. Most will show you a science book or web site that claims that the Earth rotates about its axis. When you then ask them how that is proof, most will give you a response similar in unreasonableness to the response you quote from Christians.
2) What they fail to realise is that the catholic church changed it from Saturday to Sunday with NO SCRIPTUAL AUTHORITY.
? About 3/4 of the world%26#039;s Christians accept the authority of that decision without Scripture and realizing that it is not and never was based on Scripture. Of the other 1/4 or so, I%26#039;m guessing that most either don%26#039;t realize it is not based on Scriptural authority or don%26#039;t believe that they need to observe the Biblical Sabbath.
So - now that we know you are addressing this question ONLY to Protestants that do not observe the Sabbath in the manner required of Jewish people in the Bible, we can continue.....
3) Infact if you read the book of Acts you will see that the Sabbath was being kept, even by Gentiles, long after Jesus went back to heaven.
Read Acts 15. Please.
Also: what Gentiles were keeping the Jewish Sabbath in Acts?
4) To keep the Sabbath means to rest from all your work and worship God.
The Bible describes it differently (though the %26quot;no work%26quot; thing is accurate).
5) Colossians 2:16 is referring to the yearly sabbaths that were written on paper with food and drink and festivals
What is your evidence that this passage refers only to the annual Sabbaths? You have provided none. Should we believe you because you say it is true?
6) The law of Moses written on paper was done away with. The law of God (10 commandments) still stand
The Decalogue is indisputably a part of the Mosaic Law. I know of no appropriately-accredited scholar who suggests otherwise.
7) Whoever breaks one commandment is guilty of all
Yes - now YOU read the context - particularly v 12
http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?sea…
8) The fact of the matter is is that if the catholic church had not changed the Sabbath to Sunday, I believe Christians would be going to church on Saturday instead of Sunday.
Probably true, but entirely irrelevant.
Jim, http://www.bible-reviews.com|||You are right.
The 7th day is Saturday.
But this doesn%26#039;t mean worshipping God on Sundays is wrong.
Lightning from the East%26#039;s answer explains it perfectly.|||Agree,
Sunday was the day roman pagans used to worship sun.
Girls, Do You Like This Poem? "Warm Fuzzy"?
You awake to find a gift waiting for you.
A gift that is both out of the blue, and from someone unknown.
Cautiously, you look at the gift and it%26#039;s intricate wrapping.
The velvety red paper feels good to the touch,
And the golden bow that adorns it is very pleasing to the eyes.
Running your fingers across the paper, you feel warmth through your body.
You wonder what this texture would feel like wrapped around you.
A wave of pleasure fills your body, as you literally FEEL it touching you.
Minutes pass while you enjoy this gift given to you.
Soon you become aware that nearly half an hour has passed,
And you have not yet opened this gift.
Your fingers play with the golden bow a moment,
And you find yourself smiling.
You feel really excited, and eager to find out what your gift is.
Running a hand over the velvety red paper again,
You take in a deep breath..and begin to unwrap the gift.
Delicately, you peel off the golden bow, making sure not to damage it in any
way.
Gently you stroke the golden bow, as you remove it slowly from the package.
Soon the task is complete.
Again you run your hands over the velvety paper, searching for the best
place to begin peeling it off.
To your surprise, the paper has not been taped at all.
Instead, it has been carefully tucked and folded, and made to embrace the
gift inside.
You gently pull one end, and it surrenders to you.
Then you take hold of another corner, and find that it releases to you
willingly.
Soon, the velvety red paper has been removed, allowing you to gaze upon your
gift.
Your eyes look anxiously, at the milky white box that lay before you.
Your fingers run across the smooth texture, and it feels like perfectly
carved ivory.
You reach down, and smell the box.
Mmm, the scent of vanilla kisses your nose, and brings another smile to your
face.
Images dance inside your head,
Thoughts of what may be waiting for you inside the box.
You sit for several seconds,
Running your hands over the box,
Imagining what might be inside.
Finally, you can wait no longer!
Your eager fingers grasp the box, and slowly you open it up.
As you remove the top, a brilliant light fills the room.
A light so powerful, yet it does not hurt your eyes.
In fact, the light feels.relaxing.
You feel as if you might actually be floating at this moment.
Weightless.
Content.
Invigorated.
You wonder what this could possibly be,
And how it came to be given to you.
As another wave of pleasure fills your body, you glance inside the box.
Reaching a hand inside, you pull out a most curious object.
It feels so wonderful.yet.it%26#039;s not solid at all.
It at first appears to be shaped like a crystal ball.only to change its
shape a moment later.
You stare fascinated at this object, uncertain of what you are seeing.
Then.suddenly.the object turns into your most favorite color.
A perfect hue of that one color you enjoy most.
The hand that is holding this amazing object, begins to.tingle.
And you feel that tingle move over your arm.
Then it reaches your shoulders.
Then your neck.
Your face.
Your chest.
Your stomach.
And farther,
Down,
Until,
It reaches,
Your,
Toes.
An energy is felt through your entire body.
An ecstasy like you%26#039;ve never known before.
You feel as though you could.explode.into pure energy.
This feeling is incredible to you, and you wish it to never end.
With passionate eyes, you glance once more into the ivory box.
Inside, you notice a small, handwritten card.
Perhaps now you will find out who has given you this incredibly satisfying
gift.
With eager fingers, you reach inside.
And pull out the card.
It simply reads:
You are the recipient of a Warm Fuzzy.
May it fill your days with amazing thoughts.
And your nights with incredible dreams.|||No I don%26#039;t read long drawn out sappy poems.|||its fine.
but its kind of long
A gift that is both out of the blue, and from someone unknown.
Cautiously, you look at the gift and it%26#039;s intricate wrapping.
The velvety red paper feels good to the touch,
And the golden bow that adorns it is very pleasing to the eyes.
Running your fingers across the paper, you feel warmth through your body.
You wonder what this texture would feel like wrapped around you.
A wave of pleasure fills your body, as you literally FEEL it touching you.
Minutes pass while you enjoy this gift given to you.
Soon you become aware that nearly half an hour has passed,
And you have not yet opened this gift.
Your fingers play with the golden bow a moment,
And you find yourself smiling.
You feel really excited, and eager to find out what your gift is.
Running a hand over the velvety red paper again,
You take in a deep breath..and begin to unwrap the gift.
Delicately, you peel off the golden bow, making sure not to damage it in any
way.
Gently you stroke the golden bow, as you remove it slowly from the package.
Soon the task is complete.
Again you run your hands over the velvety paper, searching for the best
place to begin peeling it off.
To your surprise, the paper has not been taped at all.
Instead, it has been carefully tucked and folded, and made to embrace the
gift inside.
You gently pull one end, and it surrenders to you.
Then you take hold of another corner, and find that it releases to you
willingly.
Soon, the velvety red paper has been removed, allowing you to gaze upon your
gift.
Your eyes look anxiously, at the milky white box that lay before you.
Your fingers run across the smooth texture, and it feels like perfectly
carved ivory.
You reach down, and smell the box.
Mmm, the scent of vanilla kisses your nose, and brings another smile to your
face.
Images dance inside your head,
Thoughts of what may be waiting for you inside the box.
You sit for several seconds,
Running your hands over the box,
Imagining what might be inside.
Finally, you can wait no longer!
Your eager fingers grasp the box, and slowly you open it up.
As you remove the top, a brilliant light fills the room.
A light so powerful, yet it does not hurt your eyes.
In fact, the light feels.relaxing.
You feel as if you might actually be floating at this moment.
Weightless.
Content.
Invigorated.
You wonder what this could possibly be,
And how it came to be given to you.
As another wave of pleasure fills your body, you glance inside the box.
Reaching a hand inside, you pull out a most curious object.
It feels so wonderful.yet.it%26#039;s not solid at all.
It at first appears to be shaped like a crystal ball.only to change its
shape a moment later.
You stare fascinated at this object, uncertain of what you are seeing.
Then.suddenly.the object turns into your most favorite color.
A perfect hue of that one color you enjoy most.
The hand that is holding this amazing object, begins to.tingle.
And you feel that tingle move over your arm.
Then it reaches your shoulders.
Then your neck.
Your face.
Your chest.
Your stomach.
And farther,
Down,
Until,
It reaches,
Your,
Toes.
An energy is felt through your entire body.
An ecstasy like you%26#039;ve never known before.
You feel as though you could.explode.into pure energy.
This feeling is incredible to you, and you wish it to never end.
With passionate eyes, you glance once more into the ivory box.
Inside, you notice a small, handwritten card.
Perhaps now you will find out who has given you this incredibly satisfying
gift.
With eager fingers, you reach inside.
And pull out the card.
It simply reads:
You are the recipient of a Warm Fuzzy.
May it fill your days with amazing thoughts.
And your nights with incredible dreams.|||No I don%26#039;t read long drawn out sappy poems.|||its fine.
but its kind of long
Php or html for adsense?
I have a lot of websites - some are php and some are html. I personally like html better as I know how to change them.
Somebody told me php doesn%26#039;t generate good adsense income and will not be recognized by search engines as well. I have never heard of this. So what is better html or php for websites mainly kept for adsense income. As of right now I have a handwritten html only website and make like $ 5 out of it a day. I have never tried a php website.
Thanks for your answers.,|||It doesn%26#039;t matter whether you use php or plain HTML with Adsense. Google and the other search engines have no problem reading either platform, or even Cold Fusion or ASP.
If it%26#039;s a dynamic URL or data driven website, you may have some indexing problems if you use too many variables, but if it%26#039;s a static website then no problem
The key is not whether you use HTML or php but whether you have great content that attracts visitors and is suited to Adsense. One reality is that not all sites work with Adsense.
In terms of earning money on Adsense, your mileage varies. One website with the 10,000 uniques a day can earn $50 a month while another may earn $5,000. It is not easy to predict how much you will earn from Adsense. The only way you can learn about how your site will perform with Adsense is through trying it.
The amount you can earn will depend on the
1. Responsiveness of audience to the ads = A travel website that provides information on travel to Spain will attract visitors looking for ways to arrange their travel and spend money on their vacation to Spain. Your site provides the info, but the ads will provide hotels, travel agencies, tourist destinations, car rentals -- ads that are likely to get the attention of the users of your site. This is a site that will most likely do well with Adsense. However, if you are a gaming website where the main purpose of the user is to play games on your site, then Adsense will not perform as well.
2. Ad format = some types of ads do better than others depending on your content and layout. In our case, large rectangles in the middle of the content is the best, while leaderboards do not generate as much as income. Skys are the worst for us. Experiment and measure the results via channels and see which formats work best for you.
3. Ad placement - check Google%26#039;s heat map as they have tested where the best placements are https://www.google.com/support/adsense/b鈥?/a>
4. Ad colors - sometimes ads blended into the content works wonders, but sometimes ads that contrast your site colors work best
5. Number of ad units on a page = we are allowed maximum of 3 ads + 1 ad links + 1 search box on a page. Maximize the allowed number based on the resulting look of your page (you don%26#039;t want an overkill of ads). Users going to your page and reading your content may ignore the banner or rectangle at the top of the page, but may click on the ad at the bottom of the article
6. Smartpricing - the big unknown in Adsense. No one knows how this actually works. But it can affect the pricing of the ads on your site. If the advertiser paid for $0.50/click - but your site is smartpriced - then the cost may be discounted lower (e.g. $0.25). So you may try to develop a site based on high paying keywords but if smartpricing gets to you, then you may not get as much per click as what you are expecting from your keywords.
Here is Google%26#039;s explanation of smart pricing https://adwords.google.com/support/bin/a鈥?/a>
Google%26#039;s smart pricing feature automatically adjusts the cost of a keyword-targeted content click based on its effectiveness compared to a search click. So if our data shows that a click from a content page is less likely to turn into actionable business results -- such as online sales, registrations, phone calls, or newsletter signups -- we reduce the price you pay for that click.
Experiment with the factors above (except smartpricing, which you can%26#039;t control), and see which combination works best. Remember though that not all sites do well with Adsense - even if you get gazillions of traffic but your visitors are not interested in looking for ways to spend their money, they won%26#039;t be interested in your ads and won%26#039;t click.|||$5 a day is great from one website. Imagine one hundred sites. It does not matter if its php html xhtml or gobble **** you still get the same adsense served and ctr no matter what.
Somebody told me php doesn%26#039;t generate good adsense income and will not be recognized by search engines as well. I have never heard of this. So what is better html or php for websites mainly kept for adsense income. As of right now I have a handwritten html only website and make like $ 5 out of it a day. I have never tried a php website.
Thanks for your answers.,|||It doesn%26#039;t matter whether you use php or plain HTML with Adsense. Google and the other search engines have no problem reading either platform, or even Cold Fusion or ASP.
If it%26#039;s a dynamic URL or data driven website, you may have some indexing problems if you use too many variables, but if it%26#039;s a static website then no problem
The key is not whether you use HTML or php but whether you have great content that attracts visitors and is suited to Adsense. One reality is that not all sites work with Adsense.
In terms of earning money on Adsense, your mileage varies. One website with the 10,000 uniques a day can earn $50 a month while another may earn $5,000. It is not easy to predict how much you will earn from Adsense. The only way you can learn about how your site will perform with Adsense is through trying it.
The amount you can earn will depend on the
1. Responsiveness of audience to the ads = A travel website that provides information on travel to Spain will attract visitors looking for ways to arrange their travel and spend money on their vacation to Spain. Your site provides the info, but the ads will provide hotels, travel agencies, tourist destinations, car rentals -- ads that are likely to get the attention of the users of your site. This is a site that will most likely do well with Adsense. However, if you are a gaming website where the main purpose of the user is to play games on your site, then Adsense will not perform as well.
2. Ad format = some types of ads do better than others depending on your content and layout. In our case, large rectangles in the middle of the content is the best, while leaderboards do not generate as much as income. Skys are the worst for us. Experiment and measure the results via channels and see which formats work best for you.
3. Ad placement - check Google%26#039;s heat map as they have tested where the best placements are https://www.google.com/support/adsense/b鈥?/a>
4. Ad colors - sometimes ads blended into the content works wonders, but sometimes ads that contrast your site colors work best
5. Number of ad units on a page = we are allowed maximum of 3 ads + 1 ad links + 1 search box on a page. Maximize the allowed number based on the resulting look of your page (you don%26#039;t want an overkill of ads). Users going to your page and reading your content may ignore the banner or rectangle at the top of the page, but may click on the ad at the bottom of the article
6. Smartpricing - the big unknown in Adsense. No one knows how this actually works. But it can affect the pricing of the ads on your site. If the advertiser paid for $0.50/click - but your site is smartpriced - then the cost may be discounted lower (e.g. $0.25). So you may try to develop a site based on high paying keywords but if smartpricing gets to you, then you may not get as much per click as what you are expecting from your keywords.
Here is Google%26#039;s explanation of smart pricing https://adwords.google.com/support/bin/a鈥?/a>
Google%26#039;s smart pricing feature automatically adjusts the cost of a keyword-targeted content click based on its effectiveness compared to a search click. So if our data shows that a click from a content page is less likely to turn into actionable business results -- such as online sales, registrations, phone calls, or newsletter signups -- we reduce the price you pay for that click.
Experiment with the factors above (except smartpricing, which you can%26#039;t control), and see which combination works best. Remember though that not all sites do well with Adsense - even if you get gazillions of traffic but your visitors are not interested in looking for ways to spend their money, they won%26#039;t be interested in your ads and won%26#039;t click.|||$5 a day is great from one website. Imagine one hundred sites. It does not matter if its php html xhtml or gobble **** you still get the same adsense served and ctr no matter what.
Do you think im in the wrong here?
Well this is it basically, theres this girl ive liked since we were both yr10s, were now in yr13, and for valentines day, i brought her a chocolate heart and card, the card saying %26quot;Hope you go well at your new school - from a close friend%26quot;. We both changed schools at the same time, and we only knew each other so we stayed close, but she saw me as a %26quot;big brother%26quot; apparently, so since the heart and card were delivered anonymously, she saw the connection between my handwriting and %26quot;close friend%26quot; and instead of saying up front %26quot;i know you have feelings for me, and that%26#039;s sweet, but we should only be friends%26quot; she ignored my existence, to the point where i had to ask random people if they could see me because i thought it was just a nightmare. I talked to her over text because that%26#039;s the only way i could get to her, and we ended up having a argument. During it i said about how ive liked her for all these years, and she replied quote %26quot;i know you have, im not stupid%26quot;. Im just confused, beyond anything i have been before. I brought the heart and card to do something nice for her, ontop of all the other nice stuff i do, and it ment what it ment, Hope you like your new school, from a close friend, a friend thats been there for you, taken the blows, driven you away from suicide when all seems against you, etc etc. She is not in anyway a b*tch, S*ut, or anything offensive, shes had an extremely hard lifestyle and she envys me for it. Shes not hot, but thats fine by me, shes not ugly, but id still like her if she was, its her personallity, shes bubbly, random, intelligent, and has the best smiles and hugs. But when she ignored me, i didn%26#039;t even get a cold look, i got nothing. Ive been blaming myself for it all for this week, been depressed (dont worry im not going for suicide cuz thats just dumb), but i feel like its all my fault. Also today (being friday) i got a friend to give her a letter i wrote (well typed cuz my handwriting sucks) and a large box of chocolates. I explained everything and said all i want to be is friends, nothing more because of this very reason. According to her class, she broke down in tears and balled her eyes out at it, which surprised me (and im not saying shes heartless or anything). . Is it really my fault, or did she overreact at it? Ive probably missed heaps of stuff out about it so it might not fully make sense.|||You sound so sweet!
First off, you mentioned that she%26#039;s had a rough time. She probably doesn%26#039;t know how to respond to your affection because not many people have shown her kindness like you. It%26#039;s possible she thinks you%26#039;re ridiculing her by sending her all these gifts and letters. It%26#039;s also possible that she likes you too, but like I said, she just doesn%26#039;t know how to react. Give her time to process all this. Although she seems to have known for a while, she%26#039;s still in shock because you just confirmed it for her. She also doesn%26#039;t sound ready for a relationship, but it does sound like she needs a friend.Try not to send any more letters and things to her for a while. Wait a few days, and then go over to the school yourself, and talk to her. Texting and IMing isn%26#039;t a good way to communicate!
Good luck!|||wow....thats really wack
honestly go up to her and TALK to her , no more letters!|||wow. that%26#039;s a long strory. She probably is really emotionally unstable right now since she%26#039;s moving schools and... well... she%26#039;s a girl. The good news is, your second note most likely worked, as seen from her reaction. if she means this much to you, and you can settle for being friends, then most definitely try to talk to her, but do it in person, so she can see your genuine concern. However, if the second note pointed out her faults, she might have started crying because it hurt to have you (someone she%26#039;s obviously close to) type out her flaws. if this is the case,|||Whoa, ok, what a story! First off, I don%26#039;t think that you are wrong at all. I%26#039;m not saying she is crazy either. Perhaps she is just afraid that if something goes on between the two of tou, you will lose your friendship. You said she had a rough life, and that you have been there for her for such a long time. Maybe she doesn%26#039;t want to lose that.In case you haven%26#039;t noticed, but relationships ( between a girlfriend and boyfriend) don%26#039;t always last long or end successfully. She was probably crying in class because it was all just overwhelming her. It%26#039;s possible that she likes you to, and ultimately is just afraid. But then again, that is just my perspective on the situation. I say, give her some time, let her think about it for a while and give her some space. She%26#039;ll come around eventually, she can%26#039;t ignore you forever!
Good Luck, Hope This Helps!!! :)
First off, you mentioned that she%26#039;s had a rough time. She probably doesn%26#039;t know how to respond to your affection because not many people have shown her kindness like you. It%26#039;s possible she thinks you%26#039;re ridiculing her by sending her all these gifts and letters. It%26#039;s also possible that she likes you too, but like I said, she just doesn%26#039;t know how to react. Give her time to process all this. Although she seems to have known for a while, she%26#039;s still in shock because you just confirmed it for her. She also doesn%26#039;t sound ready for a relationship, but it does sound like she needs a friend.Try not to send any more letters and things to her for a while. Wait a few days, and then go over to the school yourself, and talk to her. Texting and IMing isn%26#039;t a good way to communicate!
Good luck!|||wow....thats really wack
honestly go up to her and TALK to her , no more letters!|||wow. that%26#039;s a long strory. She probably is really emotionally unstable right now since she%26#039;s moving schools and... well... she%26#039;s a girl. The good news is, your second note most likely worked, as seen from her reaction. if she means this much to you, and you can settle for being friends, then most definitely try to talk to her, but do it in person, so she can see your genuine concern. However, if the second note pointed out her faults, she might have started crying because it hurt to have you (someone she%26#039;s obviously close to) type out her flaws. if this is the case,|||Whoa, ok, what a story! First off, I don%26#039;t think that you are wrong at all. I%26#039;m not saying she is crazy either. Perhaps she is just afraid that if something goes on between the two of tou, you will lose your friendship. You said she had a rough life, and that you have been there for her for such a long time. Maybe she doesn%26#039;t want to lose that.In case you haven%26#039;t noticed, but relationships ( between a girlfriend and boyfriend) don%26#039;t always last long or end successfully. She was probably crying in class because it was all just overwhelming her. It%26#039;s possible that she likes you to, and ultimately is just afraid. But then again, that is just my perspective on the situation. I say, give her some time, let her think about it for a while and give her some space. She%26#039;ll come around eventually, she can%26#039;t ignore you forever!
Good Luck, Hope This Helps!!! :)
Forensic test nees answers to help study please?
One might expect a forensic anthropologist to:
a. Analyze human bones
b. Look for kidnapped children
c. Dig for historical artifacts
d. Estimate a victim鈥檚 age and where he/she lived
e. Both a and d
2: Firearms Identification includes:
a. ID of fired bullets
b. ID cartridge cases before and after firing
c. Ballistics
d. Impressed Action marks
e. All of the above
3: What statement is true?
a. No two firearms produce the same unique marks on fired bullets and cartridge cases.
b. Study of bullets and cartridges can on tell you the type of gun it came from not the specific gun.
c. Firearms normally change over time so the firearm test needs to be completed with in a year or so of the crime.
d. All firearms leave consistent reproducible marks.
e. Fingerprinting is more dependable and powerful in the identification of firearms.
4: What country has the greatest firearms death rate, especially among the youth?
a. Finland
b. Great Britain
c. United States
d. Mexico
e. Columbia
5: In the FBI鈥檚 investigation of a missing person鈥檚 case, one major piece of evidence was a handwritten note on a piece of notebook paper with a brown-ish smudge. What unit(s) of the lab would have processed that evidence?
a. photography
b. biology and serology
c. document examiners
d. fingerprinting
e. B,C and D
6: The basic work of all forensic scientists is to
a. collect, preserve and present evidence
b. provide lots of clues to help solve crimes
c. reconstruct and invent evidence relating to crimes
d. be star witnesses in court cases for criminals
e. take notes and pictures at the crime scene
7: Criminals can use the internet to steal
a. Games
b. Information
c. Spyware
d. None of the above
--
8: An expensive internet crime which sought attention more than money involved
a. credit card theft
b. plagiarism
c. viruses and worms
d. stealing private and secret files
e. all of the above
9: A network of computer used to launch spam or spyware is known as
a. a bot
b. phishing
c. a worm
d. spam
e. all of the above
10: When you receive an email asking for your personal data such as social security number, bank account numbers and passwords you might be the victim of a computer crime known as
a. identity theft
b. worms
c. spam
d. phishing
e. two of the above
11: A Trojan horse is a hidden computer program sent through email used to read your emails.
True
False
--
--
--
12: The study of unusual deaths and sicknesses with no apparent cause would include what specific area of forensic medicine?
a. cybrocrime investigation
b. toxicology
c. poisonology
d. autopsy
e. virology
13: Pathology and toxicology would both be involved in the investigation of
a. a suspected death from AIDS
b. a death where an overdose of drugs is suspected
c. a death due to severe burns
d. an unidentifiable disease
e. suffocation
14: Toxicological analysis with gas chromatography would be important in a case
a. relating to drugs
b. relating to poisons
c. unexplained death with no obvious wounds or disease
d. suspected food or drug contaminations
e. all of the above
15: The toxicology (studies effects of drugs or poisons on the body) investigations would be take place in which case?
a. the alteration of usual body temperatures after death due to drugs
b. effects of smoking on the body
c. automobile accident with a suspicion of drunken driving
d. athletes who have unusual muscle mass
e. all of the above
16: The factors that create and maintain a fire are:
a. oxygen and a fuel source
b. heat
c. power
d. both a and b
---
17: An arson investigator may ask about the color of the smoke:
a. because the color of the smoke tells how dangerous the fire is
b. to determine who set the fire
c. to determine if something unusual was present to start the fire.
d. because different color smoke can tell if someone was hurt in the fire
--
18: When searching for blood evidence, it is important to use
a. A partner
b. A police dog
c. a high intensity light source
d. fingerprint powder
--
19: Scaled photographs are:
a. Photographs of evidence placed on a scale
b. photographs with a ruler next to the evidence
c. taken when size of evidence is important
d. b and c
e. all of the above
20: Fingerprints are classified into which of the following groups:
a. Loops, elipses and paralles
b. Whorls, Loops and Arches
c. Arches, Loops and Cycles
d. Whorls, Circles and Arches
e. None of the above|||Think are cheating not only yourself, but your potential employers and the public by not studying the material and knowing it by heart and be able to answer these questions without posting them on a public forum.
The above are basis questions that you need to know; if you don%26#039;t learn them now, you will not be truly qualified as a forensic investigator.|||...i/d answer these questions just out of simple interest in learning.
a. Analyze human bones
b. Look for kidnapped children
c. Dig for historical artifacts
d. Estimate a victim鈥檚 age and where he/she lived
e. Both a and d
2: Firearms Identification includes:
a. ID of fired bullets
b. ID cartridge cases before and after firing
c. Ballistics
d. Impressed Action marks
e. All of the above
3: What statement is true?
a. No two firearms produce the same unique marks on fired bullets and cartridge cases.
b. Study of bullets and cartridges can on tell you the type of gun it came from not the specific gun.
c. Firearms normally change over time so the firearm test needs to be completed with in a year or so of the crime.
d. All firearms leave consistent reproducible marks.
e. Fingerprinting is more dependable and powerful in the identification of firearms.
4: What country has the greatest firearms death rate, especially among the youth?
a. Finland
b. Great Britain
c. United States
d. Mexico
e. Columbia
5: In the FBI鈥檚 investigation of a missing person鈥檚 case, one major piece of evidence was a handwritten note on a piece of notebook paper with a brown-ish smudge. What unit(s) of the lab would have processed that evidence?
a. photography
b. biology and serology
c. document examiners
d. fingerprinting
e. B,C and D
6: The basic work of all forensic scientists is to
a. collect, preserve and present evidence
b. provide lots of clues to help solve crimes
c. reconstruct and invent evidence relating to crimes
d. be star witnesses in court cases for criminals
e. take notes and pictures at the crime scene
7: Criminals can use the internet to steal
a. Games
b. Information
c. Spyware
d. None of the above
--
8: An expensive internet crime which sought attention more than money involved
a. credit card theft
b. plagiarism
c. viruses and worms
d. stealing private and secret files
e. all of the above
9: A network of computer used to launch spam or spyware is known as
a. a bot
b. phishing
c. a worm
d. spam
e. all of the above
10: When you receive an email asking for your personal data such as social security number, bank account numbers and passwords you might be the victim of a computer crime known as
a. identity theft
b. worms
c. spam
d. phishing
e. two of the above
11: A Trojan horse is a hidden computer program sent through email used to read your emails.
True
False
--
--
--
12: The study of unusual deaths and sicknesses with no apparent cause would include what specific area of forensic medicine?
a. cybrocrime investigation
b. toxicology
c. poisonology
d. autopsy
e. virology
13: Pathology and toxicology would both be involved in the investigation of
a. a suspected death from AIDS
b. a death where an overdose of drugs is suspected
c. a death due to severe burns
d. an unidentifiable disease
e. suffocation
14: Toxicological analysis with gas chromatography would be important in a case
a. relating to drugs
b. relating to poisons
c. unexplained death with no obvious wounds or disease
d. suspected food or drug contaminations
e. all of the above
15: The toxicology (studies effects of drugs or poisons on the body) investigations would be take place in which case?
a. the alteration of usual body temperatures after death due to drugs
b. effects of smoking on the body
c. automobile accident with a suspicion of drunken driving
d. athletes who have unusual muscle mass
e. all of the above
16: The factors that create and maintain a fire are:
a. oxygen and a fuel source
b. heat
c. power
d. both a and b
---
17: An arson investigator may ask about the color of the smoke:
a. because the color of the smoke tells how dangerous the fire is
b. to determine who set the fire
c. to determine if something unusual was present to start the fire.
d. because different color smoke can tell if someone was hurt in the fire
--
18: When searching for blood evidence, it is important to use
a. A partner
b. A police dog
c. a high intensity light source
d. fingerprint powder
--
19: Scaled photographs are:
a. Photographs of evidence placed on a scale
b. photographs with a ruler next to the evidence
c. taken when size of evidence is important
d. b and c
e. all of the above
20: Fingerprints are classified into which of the following groups:
a. Loops, elipses and paralles
b. Whorls, Loops and Arches
c. Arches, Loops and Cycles
d. Whorls, Circles and Arches
e. None of the above|||Think are cheating not only yourself, but your potential employers and the public by not studying the material and knowing it by heart and be able to answer these questions without posting them on a public forum.
The above are basis questions that you need to know; if you don%26#039;t learn them now, you will not be truly qualified as a forensic investigator.|||...i/d answer these questions just out of simple interest in learning.
URGENT!!! PLEASE HELP!!!?
this is some questions from a tale of two cities!
I am in dire need of help, if you know any answers
please answer whatever you know PLEASE
This is from Book Three Chapters 12-15
III (12-15)
1. Where does Madame Defarge plan to end her vengeance? (12)
a. She doesn%26#039;t plan to end it.
b. With the death of Charles Darnay
c. In Paris
d. With the total extermination of all aristocrats
2. Why does Carton have Darnay write the letter? (13)
a. He wants it in Darnay%26#039;s own handwriting.
b. He doesn%26#039;t know what to say.
c. He can%26#039;t write.
d. He wants it to be in Darnay%26#039;s own words.
3. How does Cruncher change? (14)
a. He swears never to go fishing again.
b. He swears to join the priesthood.
c. He goes crazy.
d. He becomes sad and quiet.
4. Why is Miss Pross in a %26quot;queer condition%26quot;? (14)
a. She is pregnant and unmarried.
b. She is in a state of shock from Madame Defarge%26#039;s abuse.
c. She caught Cruncher %26quot;fishing%26quot; and became frightened.
d. She killed Madame Defarge and has been deafened by the gun%26#039;s explosion.
5. Sydney Carton said he would die young because of a dissipated and wasted life. How was
he both right and wrong? (15)
a. A dissipated and wasted life
b. Love and sacrifice
c. Hatred and greed
d. Accidental suicide
6. How is Madame Defarge cheated? (15)
a. She never holds an office in the new government.
b. The register is robbed.
c. Her wish of total extermination will never come true.
d. Lucie and Miss Pross escape.
oh and pleeasee don%26#039;t be annoying and say %26quot;just do your homework%26quot; because I have been sick all week and at the doctors and it was horrible. I have been working on this for hours, and I got past the first two and CANNOT UNDERSTAND CHARLES DICKENS!!!|||1 d Madame Defarge has an answer to that: they鈥檒l stop when all of the aristocrats are exterminated.
Check out this site for summary of each chapter|||Laziness is next to something...:
This is a site that will give an overview of a tale of two cities.
http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/twocities/
I am in dire need of help, if you know any answers
please answer whatever you know PLEASE
This is from Book Three Chapters 12-15
III (12-15)
1. Where does Madame Defarge plan to end her vengeance? (12)
a. She doesn%26#039;t plan to end it.
b. With the death of Charles Darnay
c. In Paris
d. With the total extermination of all aristocrats
2. Why does Carton have Darnay write the letter? (13)
a. He wants it in Darnay%26#039;s own handwriting.
b. He doesn%26#039;t know what to say.
c. He can%26#039;t write.
d. He wants it to be in Darnay%26#039;s own words.
3. How does Cruncher change? (14)
a. He swears never to go fishing again.
b. He swears to join the priesthood.
c. He goes crazy.
d. He becomes sad and quiet.
4. Why is Miss Pross in a %26quot;queer condition%26quot;? (14)
a. She is pregnant and unmarried.
b. She is in a state of shock from Madame Defarge%26#039;s abuse.
c. She caught Cruncher %26quot;fishing%26quot; and became frightened.
d. She killed Madame Defarge and has been deafened by the gun%26#039;s explosion.
5. Sydney Carton said he would die young because of a dissipated and wasted life. How was
he both right and wrong? (15)
a. A dissipated and wasted life
b. Love and sacrifice
c. Hatred and greed
d. Accidental suicide
6. How is Madame Defarge cheated? (15)
a. She never holds an office in the new government.
b. The register is robbed.
c. Her wish of total extermination will never come true.
d. Lucie and Miss Pross escape.
oh and pleeasee don%26#039;t be annoying and say %26quot;just do your homework%26quot; because I have been sick all week and at the doctors and it was horrible. I have been working on this for hours, and I got past the first two and CANNOT UNDERSTAND CHARLES DICKENS!!!|||1 d Madame Defarge has an answer to that: they鈥檒l stop when all of the aristocrats are exterminated.
Check out this site for summary of each chapter|||Laziness is next to something...:
This is a site that will give an overview of a tale of two cities.
http://www.sparknotes.com/lit/twocities/
I am so confused! PLEASE help me!?
last night i was really upset, over nothing really.. and i ended up getting drunk and i wrote this message. i dont normally drink when im upset but it all got too much for me to handle.
i dont even remember writing it but its my handwriting and it was in my room..:
My hurricane is way to fast.. cut me some slack. every person that i look at knows who they is and i dont. Because i wont ever have my dream. Every pulse in me knows what i need to be. My head is bent up. Wherever it takes me belongs to a cemetery fighting wounds. I am fighting the wounds that i dont have.. You cant light what is not there.
When will i stop and give up? Down the slipway where no one looks there is someone else but i dont know who that is either. I just cant do that. Someday maybe they wont be there anymore. But i dont want them to come back. Who the **** am i? Why cant i face the reality of what i am? Please come back to me. Who am i to change a thing.
%26quot;whatever you do, you know, the world it keeps on turning%26quot;.
i want to stop what its doing to me. What will it do to me later and next? My profile is all lies and i know it. So do you. why does my share always have less. I deserve less but how does other people know that? You cant be something that you are not. You are who you are but i%26#039;ve never met myself propperly.
I want to die. I want to but i am scared of what i will leave behind. Behind me there is things. You cannot leave what you have. I have tried, you cant go that easy. You cant ******* escape.
You cant just try. WHen you try and fail, your secret is gone and your ******* trapped. You have to succeed. There is no other way. You canot sit and watch yourself die slowly, you have to decide. You die the moment you lose the will to live? I AM ******* DEAD THEN. when am i gone?
i want to do this, please let me go.. let me slip away. PLEASE when i am gone, no one will know. I will understand. So will you. Maybe tomorrow will never come. If it does then please tell me how to live.. How? i need help! please help me. I dont know how to ask. i dont know how to ask because i dont know what i need help with. i need you! when will you come?
i dont know what it means.. please help me! what should i do! i am 14..|||You seem to be suffering from a brain Chemistry Imbalance, you need to see a doctor.
The Body/Brain Chemistry, goes through an evolution as we evolve from teen to adult.
It can evolve differently, with each person.
You do not like the environment that your psyche is in , and you are attempting to change it by Self Medication - Booze or Drugs. these chemicals, just further distort your brain chemistry, and prevent the brain chemistry from performing their intended function in an appropriate manner.
You are suffering a degree of depression, the side effects of which, can be controlled to an acceptable level Record your Sober thoughts, let your doctor read them, with these the Doctor is better able to determine your level of depression, and prescribe an appropriate medication.
It does get Better.
You are Not Alone put %26quot;Famous People and Depression%26quot; in your search engine..|||you wont like hearing this but i think that you might need some help, family arnt always the best option because they freak out so much but maybe ask a close friend or go to the school councilor or something.
i dont even remember writing it but its my handwriting and it was in my room..:
My hurricane is way to fast.. cut me some slack. every person that i look at knows who they is and i dont. Because i wont ever have my dream. Every pulse in me knows what i need to be. My head is bent up. Wherever it takes me belongs to a cemetery fighting wounds. I am fighting the wounds that i dont have.. You cant light what is not there.
When will i stop and give up? Down the slipway where no one looks there is someone else but i dont know who that is either. I just cant do that. Someday maybe they wont be there anymore. But i dont want them to come back. Who the **** am i? Why cant i face the reality of what i am? Please come back to me. Who am i to change a thing.
%26quot;whatever you do, you know, the world it keeps on turning%26quot;.
i want to stop what its doing to me. What will it do to me later and next? My profile is all lies and i know it. So do you. why does my share always have less. I deserve less but how does other people know that? You cant be something that you are not. You are who you are but i%26#039;ve never met myself propperly.
I want to die. I want to but i am scared of what i will leave behind. Behind me there is things. You cannot leave what you have. I have tried, you cant go that easy. You cant ******* escape.
You cant just try. WHen you try and fail, your secret is gone and your ******* trapped. You have to succeed. There is no other way. You canot sit and watch yourself die slowly, you have to decide. You die the moment you lose the will to live? I AM ******* DEAD THEN. when am i gone?
i want to do this, please let me go.. let me slip away. PLEASE when i am gone, no one will know. I will understand. So will you. Maybe tomorrow will never come. If it does then please tell me how to live.. How? i need help! please help me. I dont know how to ask. i dont know how to ask because i dont know what i need help with. i need you! when will you come?
i dont know what it means.. please help me! what should i do! i am 14..|||You seem to be suffering from a brain Chemistry Imbalance, you need to see a doctor.
The Body/Brain Chemistry, goes through an evolution as we evolve from teen to adult.
It can evolve differently, with each person.
You do not like the environment that your psyche is in , and you are attempting to change it by Self Medication - Booze or Drugs. these chemicals, just further distort your brain chemistry, and prevent the brain chemistry from performing their intended function in an appropriate manner.
You are suffering a degree of depression, the side effects of which, can be controlled to an acceptable level Record your Sober thoughts, let your doctor read them, with these the Doctor is better able to determine your level of depression, and prescribe an appropriate medication.
It does get Better.
You are Not Alone put %26quot;Famous People and Depression%26quot; in your search engine..|||you wont like hearing this but i think that you might need some help, family arnt always the best option because they freak out so much but maybe ask a close friend or go to the school councilor or something.
Does this Apology work?
Taylor Kay...This is my apology to you.Sry that i%26#039;m not hand writing it %26lt; I Hate my handwriting%26gt;..I wanted to let you know that i miss you.I don%26#039;t know why we broke apart.I%26#039;m sure it was my fault.But Taylor Kay. I Love you and theres nothing that can change that... I wish that you knew how much its hurt to see that you don%26#039;t wanna talk to me or even look in my direction.. Your in My heart. and i think of you every day...Mostly in speech class because i remember when we first met..We instantly became Best friends. Remember you and me stuck together though every duet activity? Lip Sync. Pantomime?...I remember when you and me practiced at your house..You helped me with my make-up? I brings tears to my eyes when i think about it.You and me would crack up laughing about nothing...Taylor Kay... I LOVE YOU. I want you to know that I do.I love you as a friend. I don%26#039;t want this misunderstanding to break us up as friends forever. I am willing to do whatever it takes to make things right.You mean the world to me and I am devastated at the thought of losing our friendship. I miss you. If you want to yell, scream or put me down, I will listen. Let%26#039;s communicate even if the outcome means we have to say goodbye...Taylor Kay.Please Message me back. %26lt;3
Xoxo,Nicole
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|||OMG!! that was a beautiful apology letter by friends just say %26quot;sorry can we get over it?%26quot;. Your letter almost made me cry! she%26#039;s sure to forgive you or whatever went on between u 2
Xoxo,Nicole
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|||OMG!! that was a beautiful apology letter by friends just say %26quot;sorry can we get over it?%26quot;. Your letter almost made me cry! she%26#039;s sure to forgive you or whatever went on between u 2
I have a problem with emotions and basically myself. I need an answer.?
Ok.
First of all. id like something to help describe me.
i%26#039;ve looked through schizoid, schizotypal, avoidant, all these things are commong factor with a problem. Social.
im not a social person talking in person, but im exceedingly social on the computer, why is this? why is it i can speak miles yet say so little in a life meeting?
another question.
I prefer to be alone because i enjoy it, because im a pisces. but does that explain the preferability to WANT to be alone? to NOT want friends, except very few,
lets explain a few personality traits? or symptoms?
questions i dont want to answer angers me,
critisism makes me either smirk, or feel the need to punch something.
i prefer to be alone yet i want to talk to people, but only when i want to, making friends has them talk to me whenever they want to, which most of the time i prefer being alone. i know this is selfish, but, everyone needs someone.. but im debating whether i care about it or not, i mean on the outside, even on here, im beginning to type emotions i dont even feel, im beginning to feel nothing at all, anger? only in privacy, happiness? i dont even remember how it feels. i need counceling that much is ture but i dont want the therapy. i%26#039;ve been to a therapist, but i have this ability to make someone think differently, im a perfect lier i can lie my butt off and make someone think im a totaly different person, as if im a master of disguise, i DONT do it on purpose. it comes naturaly.. i adore music, yes, rock and metal, punk rock, but the only anger id express in reality that isnt online is my anger and hatred of country music, or foods i dislike, is it really that bad to not care? i just had a death in the family and i think i almost smirked! now my grandmother is weeks from death and i still feel nothing! yet it isnt happiness nor sadness, just a complete emptiness, is it because im always feeling the same thing and im preoccupied in something else to notice current events? if i didnt want help id obviously not be typing this out to the public.. i dont want therapy, i just want answers, answers i cannot get on my own, i%26#039;ve always thought to myself that, someone else cannot make you change yourself, only you can. im not trying to change myself, im beginning to like this feeling of not careing for a darn thing but myself and the people closest to me, is that bad? is it bad that if someone dies in the paper that i dont care? because i never knew him/her? i dont know anymore... i guess what im asking is, what is the answer to these basic problems
ability to show emotion on the outside perfectly, yet feel nothing inside
constant feeling of end, as if last moments of life are always near
paranoia and suspicion of others but not sever as in eye directness from left to right,
unsocial to the point of not careing to talk to others even when i wish to talk to them i just cant,
has a speech problem yet has no problem typing it out.
sloppy handwriting,
bad at math
perfect knowledge, very good grades a perfect student,
horrible social skills, speech skills
worst of all is the inability to express the true emotions
constant fear of being heard or seen that i dont do anything i feel like doing unless completely alone
doesnt express myself until completely alone
doesnt express anything but a mumbled response to anyone outside of the immediate family and close friends
is it fear? or just not careing?
i dont even know the emotions i feel anymore!
i ask your help because im about to crack yet i dont seek professional aid, for to me they are no help because i desire none from others, i want to be able to help myself yet i need advice. please, give me advice.
this is all, if i sound crazy to you then i obviously must be, yet i think perfectly, i am a perfect student in schools in every area except math and health class, health for the reason of not remembering definitions to long words and not careing to read over long pages of notes.
i am a 16 year old male pisces with a problem asking help.
i know its jumbled but please try to understand it.. i tend to go on and on..|||Interesting set of characteristics there. I can say a few things. I know exactly what you are talking about when you say you have difficulty with expressing yourself. I have always had social problems as well however when explaining it on the computer it is perfect. I cant really explain what i want to say and so i will render myself as an image of a crazy person sputtering random words. I know what i want to say but it gets confusing- i cant say any jokes without ruining them nor can i freely talk with people that easily. I also know what you mean when you say you prefer to be alone. I enjoy my solitude as it enables me to freely be who i am without the perception of others. I think you may want to speak with someone (if the problem doesn%26#039;t get addressed on yahoo ) about how you feel. It is very very important that you do this. im 15 right now and i had quite a few issues the past few years but i was able to talk with my doctor (he will never reveal anything you share to him to anyone- confidentiality is absolute) and get help. I want you to copy all that you%26#039;ve typed up, and i want you to save it somewhere safe- please do this. and when you are ready give it to your doctor. At your next physical or something. but please do so at a young age- as you may be traumatized by this (something that can be prevented and trust me- there are alternatives :) ) Also, as a teen, the body undergoes massive change and this change includes the augmentation and variation of chemicals within the brain during puberty. so it may also be this. But if it has been like this for your whole life then its fine- unless it bothers you (in which case please copy this and give it to your doctor) p.s.: when i see the obituaries i dont really feel much either- it may be normal but everyone functions in a way. The person may not be related to you- in effect you don%26#039;t really care. (like me , i mean i realize the person died but i cant feel sad for everyone and so i just turn the page.)
take care
-teslacakes|||I think your %26quot;poor%26quot; social skills are caused due to the fact that you may constantly be REALLY worried about what others think of you (without realizing it).
Your lack of emotions confuses me, mainly because I basically suffer from the same problem.
I personally don%26#039;t think you are crazy at all.
Not 100% sure whether or not these answers will help or not, but I hope they do. If I think of anything else that may help you I%26#039;ll post it.
Oh, and you find it easier to release your mind on the internet because there is a %26quot;wall%26quot; between you and everyone else. They do not know you, and may never know you. But, if they care enough they can share their knowledge to assist you with your problems in life.|||It isn%26#039;t unusual to like being alone. Everyone likes to be alone at times and some like to be alone all the time. As for the not being really able speaking to your friends part, then perhaps deep down, you do care about something - what people think of you. (I don%26#039;t know if i am correct) But, if that is the case then that is not unusual neither. If this has been going on for a long time (a very long time - years) then i do think you may need professional help, otherwise, if it has been going on say a few months, then this may be just a phase you are going through. One other thing, no, you are not crazy. This may sound weird, but if you want, you could try standing in the mirror and pretend your reflection is one of your friends, then practice various conversations and maybe it will give you a bit more confidence. I think that it may be confidence that you actually need. Try doing something that you have never done before, for example, if you are scared of spiders, hold a spider, or snakes... find somewhere were you can come up close to a snake, etc... Things like this may boost your confidence a lot, knowing that you have done something you never thought you could do.
Good Luck!!|||It is very possible to have traits from a number of different personality disorders. I can%26#039;t really pass judgment on the Avoidant or schizotypal but I am Schizoid so..... you do show some traits of schizoid but not all. You do have emotions..... maybe all you recognize is the anger and fear but they are emotions none the less. Typically we do not feel that there is anything wrong with us. We like ourselves and are very comfortable with ourselves and have little to no desire to change. You seem to feel a lot of anger when you are critisized..... we don%26#039;t care one way or another. We do do some socializing on the net but for me, even that is minimal and I can occasionally make a friend but usually after a week or two I get bored and just ignore them until they go away. You seem very worried about it all which would point away from Schizoid but you do still show a few schizoid traits.
There are online tests that you can take but don%26#039;d put too much stock in them. The Jung Personality test just puts you into one of 16 personility tests but Schizoids almost universally fall into onf of those groups. The personality disorder I hesitate to even put here because it%26#039;s like putting a single grain of salt on your steak....... The true MMPI is over 500 questions long and costs a couple of hundred dollars to take but here%26#039;s the website. If you do take them, be completely honest....... no sense lying to yourself.
http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality鈥?/a>
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTyp鈥?/a>
Keep in mind, personailty disorders are just normal personality traits taken to an unhealthy extreme....... I would guess that you are more avoidant that schizoid, the reason you have no problem socializing on the net is because you have no speech problem there....... You have a fear of people seeing you which is definitly avoidant and NOT schizoid.
You don%26#039;t sound at all crazy..... just confused and honestly I think you are pretty badly depressed. I know you say you don%26#039;t want it but therapy can really help in a number of areas. I am in therapy for Bipolar, and DID NOS, but we do not work on the schizoid because I argue that it isn%26#039;t really a disorder. A Disorder is defined as something that distresses you and interferes with you ability to function. I am not distressed and I function just fine, I work, I pay my bills, I don%26#039;t fear the world, I just don%26#039;%26#039;t belong to it. I don%26#039;t know that being a pisces means anything....... I am a leo so I%26#039;m supposed to be gregarious and a person who loves to be the center of attention. I am so not that.
Anyway.. good luck with it and I really do suggest you get some help for the depression at least....... it can make all the bad things in yoru life seem 10 times worse that they really are.
First of all. id like something to help describe me.
i%26#039;ve looked through schizoid, schizotypal, avoidant, all these things are commong factor with a problem. Social.
im not a social person talking in person, but im exceedingly social on the computer, why is this? why is it i can speak miles yet say so little in a life meeting?
another question.
I prefer to be alone because i enjoy it, because im a pisces. but does that explain the preferability to WANT to be alone? to NOT want friends, except very few,
lets explain a few personality traits? or symptoms?
questions i dont want to answer angers me,
critisism makes me either smirk, or feel the need to punch something.
i prefer to be alone yet i want to talk to people, but only when i want to, making friends has them talk to me whenever they want to, which most of the time i prefer being alone. i know this is selfish, but, everyone needs someone.. but im debating whether i care about it or not, i mean on the outside, even on here, im beginning to type emotions i dont even feel, im beginning to feel nothing at all, anger? only in privacy, happiness? i dont even remember how it feels. i need counceling that much is ture but i dont want the therapy. i%26#039;ve been to a therapist, but i have this ability to make someone think differently, im a perfect lier i can lie my butt off and make someone think im a totaly different person, as if im a master of disguise, i DONT do it on purpose. it comes naturaly.. i adore music, yes, rock and metal, punk rock, but the only anger id express in reality that isnt online is my anger and hatred of country music, or foods i dislike, is it really that bad to not care? i just had a death in the family and i think i almost smirked! now my grandmother is weeks from death and i still feel nothing! yet it isnt happiness nor sadness, just a complete emptiness, is it because im always feeling the same thing and im preoccupied in something else to notice current events? if i didnt want help id obviously not be typing this out to the public.. i dont want therapy, i just want answers, answers i cannot get on my own, i%26#039;ve always thought to myself that, someone else cannot make you change yourself, only you can. im not trying to change myself, im beginning to like this feeling of not careing for a darn thing but myself and the people closest to me, is that bad? is it bad that if someone dies in the paper that i dont care? because i never knew him/her? i dont know anymore... i guess what im asking is, what is the answer to these basic problems
ability to show emotion on the outside perfectly, yet feel nothing inside
constant feeling of end, as if last moments of life are always near
paranoia and suspicion of others but not sever as in eye directness from left to right,
unsocial to the point of not careing to talk to others even when i wish to talk to them i just cant,
has a speech problem yet has no problem typing it out.
sloppy handwriting,
bad at math
perfect knowledge, very good grades a perfect student,
horrible social skills, speech skills
worst of all is the inability to express the true emotions
constant fear of being heard or seen that i dont do anything i feel like doing unless completely alone
doesnt express myself until completely alone
doesnt express anything but a mumbled response to anyone outside of the immediate family and close friends
is it fear? or just not careing?
i dont even know the emotions i feel anymore!
i ask your help because im about to crack yet i dont seek professional aid, for to me they are no help because i desire none from others, i want to be able to help myself yet i need advice. please, give me advice.
this is all, if i sound crazy to you then i obviously must be, yet i think perfectly, i am a perfect student in schools in every area except math and health class, health for the reason of not remembering definitions to long words and not careing to read over long pages of notes.
i am a 16 year old male pisces with a problem asking help.
i know its jumbled but please try to understand it.. i tend to go on and on..|||Interesting set of characteristics there. I can say a few things. I know exactly what you are talking about when you say you have difficulty with expressing yourself. I have always had social problems as well however when explaining it on the computer it is perfect. I cant really explain what i want to say and so i will render myself as an image of a crazy person sputtering random words. I know what i want to say but it gets confusing- i cant say any jokes without ruining them nor can i freely talk with people that easily. I also know what you mean when you say you prefer to be alone. I enjoy my solitude as it enables me to freely be who i am without the perception of others. I think you may want to speak with someone (if the problem doesn%26#039;t get addressed on yahoo ) about how you feel. It is very very important that you do this. im 15 right now and i had quite a few issues the past few years but i was able to talk with my doctor (he will never reveal anything you share to him to anyone- confidentiality is absolute) and get help. I want you to copy all that you%26#039;ve typed up, and i want you to save it somewhere safe- please do this. and when you are ready give it to your doctor. At your next physical or something. but please do so at a young age- as you may be traumatized by this (something that can be prevented and trust me- there are alternatives :) ) Also, as a teen, the body undergoes massive change and this change includes the augmentation and variation of chemicals within the brain during puberty. so it may also be this. But if it has been like this for your whole life then its fine- unless it bothers you (in which case please copy this and give it to your doctor) p.s.: when i see the obituaries i dont really feel much either- it may be normal but everyone functions in a way. The person may not be related to you- in effect you don%26#039;t really care. (like me , i mean i realize the person died but i cant feel sad for everyone and so i just turn the page.)
take care
-teslacakes|||I think your %26quot;poor%26quot; social skills are caused due to the fact that you may constantly be REALLY worried about what others think of you (without realizing it).
Your lack of emotions confuses me, mainly because I basically suffer from the same problem.
I personally don%26#039;t think you are crazy at all.
Not 100% sure whether or not these answers will help or not, but I hope they do. If I think of anything else that may help you I%26#039;ll post it.
Oh, and you find it easier to release your mind on the internet because there is a %26quot;wall%26quot; between you and everyone else. They do not know you, and may never know you. But, if they care enough they can share their knowledge to assist you with your problems in life.|||It isn%26#039;t unusual to like being alone. Everyone likes to be alone at times and some like to be alone all the time. As for the not being really able speaking to your friends part, then perhaps deep down, you do care about something - what people think of you. (I don%26#039;t know if i am correct) But, if that is the case then that is not unusual neither. If this has been going on for a long time (a very long time - years) then i do think you may need professional help, otherwise, if it has been going on say a few months, then this may be just a phase you are going through. One other thing, no, you are not crazy. This may sound weird, but if you want, you could try standing in the mirror and pretend your reflection is one of your friends, then practice various conversations and maybe it will give you a bit more confidence. I think that it may be confidence that you actually need. Try doing something that you have never done before, for example, if you are scared of spiders, hold a spider, or snakes... find somewhere were you can come up close to a snake, etc... Things like this may boost your confidence a lot, knowing that you have done something you never thought you could do.
Good Luck!!|||It is very possible to have traits from a number of different personality disorders. I can%26#039;t really pass judgment on the Avoidant or schizotypal but I am Schizoid so..... you do show some traits of schizoid but not all. You do have emotions..... maybe all you recognize is the anger and fear but they are emotions none the less. Typically we do not feel that there is anything wrong with us. We like ourselves and are very comfortable with ourselves and have little to no desire to change. You seem to feel a lot of anger when you are critisized..... we don%26#039;t care one way or another. We do do some socializing on the net but for me, even that is minimal and I can occasionally make a friend but usually after a week or two I get bored and just ignore them until they go away. You seem very worried about it all which would point away from Schizoid but you do still show a few schizoid traits.
There are online tests that you can take but don%26#039;d put too much stock in them. The Jung Personality test just puts you into one of 16 personility tests but Schizoids almost universally fall into onf of those groups. The personality disorder I hesitate to even put here because it%26#039;s like putting a single grain of salt on your steak....... The true MMPI is over 500 questions long and costs a couple of hundred dollars to take but here%26#039;s the website. If you do take them, be completely honest....... no sense lying to yourself.
http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality鈥?/a>
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTyp鈥?/a>
Keep in mind, personailty disorders are just normal personality traits taken to an unhealthy extreme....... I would guess that you are more avoidant that schizoid, the reason you have no problem socializing on the net is because you have no speech problem there....... You have a fear of people seeing you which is definitly avoidant and NOT schizoid.
You don%26#039;t sound at all crazy..... just confused and honestly I think you are pretty badly depressed. I know you say you don%26#039;t want it but therapy can really help in a number of areas. I am in therapy for Bipolar, and DID NOS, but we do not work on the schizoid because I argue that it isn%26#039;t really a disorder. A Disorder is defined as something that distresses you and interferes with you ability to function. I am not distressed and I function just fine, I work, I pay my bills, I don%26#039;t fear the world, I just don%26#039;%26#039;t belong to it. I don%26#039;t know that being a pisces means anything....... I am a leo so I%26#039;m supposed to be gregarious and a person who loves to be the center of attention. I am so not that.
Anyway.. good luck with it and I really do suggest you get some help for the depression at least....... it can make all the bad things in yoru life seem 10 times worse that they really are.
My child struggles with homework and he's in fourth grade...?
Hi, my child is on the 504 plan and has an IEP but he still struggles with homework. I have a hard time as well because homework time turns into arguing time. My mom said to me tonight that she can see me suffering and all I want for my child is to have success with his education and happiness. He has Tourretts %26#039; Syndrome so his handwriting is horrible even with Occupational Therapy. I just don%26#039;t know what to do. I know putting him on a schedule will cause more fighting because I%26#039;ve as well as my family have spoiled him. How can I change things and ppl please be nice. I almost died having my son and I am a good mother...I have volunteered at his school, he takes singing lessons etc...I just need some advice or ideas/tips on homework. What should be done...his teacher already knows the situation which is why she is recommending he go to a school that has smaller classes and can help him more next year. I feel like I am at a lost...he%26#039;s never stayed back and has passed the FCAT but I am worried about this year because of his handwriting. I want the best for my son...should I get tutoring/counseling, take him to the library every day after school to do his homework? Help. Thanks for being sensitive about this. This is a very difficult subject for me and I am already depressed about it so plz don%26#039;t be mean with your answers. Thanks.|||Hon. don%26#039;t be depressed you are not the only person struggling with a loved one suffering from tourettes syndrome. You are trying to get him help I take my hat off to you. Tourettes kids can be very strong %26amp; willful, they can also be the most caring affection kids you can ever meet. You have to be firm %26amp; straight with him.
Can you help him with home work try writing practice in small doses, pick something he loves (whether it%26#039;s a cartoon character or TV show) %26amp; write a few lines %26amp; practice together. Or do you know any high school kids or Uni students (preferably a uni student studying to be a teacher) that could assist you? He definitely needs some additional counselling/tutoring but it has to be done in a fun way or he will rebel.
Think outside the square - play a game when he gets home from school. When he wants to ask you something tell him it%26#039;s a new game %26amp; he needs to write down his request/question. (Anything to make it not seem like work). Are there no after hours teaching facilities available @ yr his school?
Good luck sweetheart, everybody has peaks %26amp; troughs in their life, things will work out stay positive %26amp; focus on the end goal. Take care:D|||i had this problem in 4th grade.nothing worked for me.but try to give him confidence.dont put him down.if he starts argueing show that ur in charge.make sure he knows that ur watching him.cuz he doesnt want to be getting into a fight hes gonna lose.|||try sylvan learning center on-line or personally.
(this is tutoring)
hope this helped
Can you help him with home work try writing practice in small doses, pick something he loves (whether it%26#039;s a cartoon character or TV show) %26amp; write a few lines %26amp; practice together. Or do you know any high school kids or Uni students (preferably a uni student studying to be a teacher) that could assist you? He definitely needs some additional counselling/tutoring but it has to be done in a fun way or he will rebel.
Think outside the square - play a game when he gets home from school. When he wants to ask you something tell him it%26#039;s a new game %26amp; he needs to write down his request/question. (Anything to make it not seem like work). Are there no after hours teaching facilities available @ yr his school?
Good luck sweetheart, everybody has peaks %26amp; troughs in their life, things will work out stay positive %26amp; focus on the end goal. Take care:D|||i had this problem in 4th grade.nothing worked for me.but try to give him confidence.dont put him down.if he starts argueing show that ur in charge.make sure he knows that ur watching him.cuz he doesnt want to be getting into a fight hes gonna lose.|||try sylvan learning center on-line or personally.
(this is tutoring)
hope this helped
Filing a Complaint with DriveTest Ontario?
Yesterday I took my G2 Driving Test in Ontario for the second time and I believe the examiner purposely failed me. Everything was going fine and I knew I did really well until the end of the exam. When I pulled into the parking lot at the end of the exam there were people standing a bit into the spot that he asked me to pull into. I parked a bit lean in the spot to avoid hitting them. I had assumed the test was over and it wouldn鈥檛 matter. The examiner then asked me if that鈥檚 how I was going to complete the park. I admit I got a bit rude with him and asked him if he wanted me to run them over. He then yelled at me and told me to back up and complete the park. I asked him if this was even a part of the test he then yelled at me again and said he didn%26#039;t say the test was over. I hesitated a bit out of spite and then I completed the park.
I believe he wrongfully failed me for this reason only because instead of giving me my results immediately which is normally what they do he said he had to go inside for something. Even my driving instructor thought it was strange that he would have to go inside for anything. When he came back outside he handed me a new sheet. I know it was a new results sheet because I compared it the results sheet I received from my previous test. The results from the first sheet has my name and address already written in from the computer while the sheet that he gave me has my information written in with his handwriting.
When I went inside and asked for the originally test sheet the guy at the counter said the examiner told him he had incorrectly put my name where my address was and that鈥檚 why he had to change the sheet which I think is complete bull since the information is put in automatically by the computer and why wouldn%26#039;t he has seen this information and changed it before we began the test since my name is clearly written on the top of the sheet.
Also when he came back he didn鈥檛 explain why he was failing me. He just handed me the sheet and walked away. I checked on the DriveTest website and it states that:
At the end of each test, the Examiner will give you a complete report of your skills and explain any mistakes you made. 鈥揥hich he did not do.
I also noticed that under the hill parking he said I turned my wheels incorrectly which I know I did not do because on my first exam I had failed my uphill park and this time I made sure to turn my wheels correctly and complete the park. So I think he purposely changed this part of my results to make it look like I had too many errors.
My question is how does the process for complaining work and will anything result from it? I鈥檝e already phoned their customer service line and left a message. I know they won鈥檛 pass me and I don鈥檛 mind taking the test over but I would at least like to have my money for the test given back to me.|||Appeal it all you want but on the testing form there are testing factors that must be passed and testing factors that should be passed.
By that I mean if you make certain errors it doesn%26#039;t matter unless you do, lets say, 5 or more of them. You can not turn the wheel hand over hand, or not keep your wheels straight while you are waiting to make a turn or other things like that and it won%26#039;t matter unless you make a number of those mistakes during the test.
There are other areas where if you do even one of those things it%26#039;s an automatic failure and what you did was considered an automatic failure.
As to the %26quot;complete explanation%26quot;...it was on the sheet. That outlines it all and there is no need for him to stand there and discuss, debate or explain it further to you. As you said, complain all you want and take the test again but there is no way they are going to return your money. You paid for the test, the examiner and the testing time. Unless you can give them THAT back they are not going to return your money.
I believe he wrongfully failed me for this reason only because instead of giving me my results immediately which is normally what they do he said he had to go inside for something. Even my driving instructor thought it was strange that he would have to go inside for anything. When he came back outside he handed me a new sheet. I know it was a new results sheet because I compared it the results sheet I received from my previous test. The results from the first sheet has my name and address already written in from the computer while the sheet that he gave me has my information written in with his handwriting.
When I went inside and asked for the originally test sheet the guy at the counter said the examiner told him he had incorrectly put my name where my address was and that鈥檚 why he had to change the sheet which I think is complete bull since the information is put in automatically by the computer and why wouldn%26#039;t he has seen this information and changed it before we began the test since my name is clearly written on the top of the sheet.
Also when he came back he didn鈥檛 explain why he was failing me. He just handed me the sheet and walked away. I checked on the DriveTest website and it states that:
At the end of each test, the Examiner will give you a complete report of your skills and explain any mistakes you made. 鈥揥hich he did not do.
I also noticed that under the hill parking he said I turned my wheels incorrectly which I know I did not do because on my first exam I had failed my uphill park and this time I made sure to turn my wheels correctly and complete the park. So I think he purposely changed this part of my results to make it look like I had too many errors.
My question is how does the process for complaining work and will anything result from it? I鈥檝e already phoned their customer service line and left a message. I know they won鈥檛 pass me and I don鈥檛 mind taking the test over but I would at least like to have my money for the test given back to me.|||Appeal it all you want but on the testing form there are testing factors that must be passed and testing factors that should be passed.
By that I mean if you make certain errors it doesn%26#039;t matter unless you do, lets say, 5 or more of them. You can not turn the wheel hand over hand, or not keep your wheels straight while you are waiting to make a turn or other things like that and it won%26#039;t matter unless you make a number of those mistakes during the test.
There are other areas where if you do even one of those things it%26#039;s an automatic failure and what you did was considered an automatic failure.
As to the %26quot;complete explanation%26quot;...it was on the sheet. That outlines it all and there is no need for him to stand there and discuss, debate or explain it further to you. As you said, complain all you want and take the test again but there is no way they are going to return your money. You paid for the test, the examiner and the testing time. Unless you can give them THAT back they are not going to return your money.
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copyrights go to funamation and whoever Blaze is not goku and it ma be a little ripped off but tell me if you think its good and if you have any charecter or villan sugetions email me DarkMatterBrando@yahoo.com here ya go From the mind of
Blaze’s Bio
Blaze how do I explain him? I guess I should tell you how he was born. O.O. Blaze was found by a woman who was exploring in the cave of the seven sage temples. The seven sage’s each had their own element and Blaze was found in the fire sage’s room. He pretty much never knew that he had incredible strength but one day would change all of that.
One day when Blaze was just chillin in the woods carving a stick. Blaze at this time is 8 years old and is like a forest kid he sleeps in trees pretty much spends his day wandering in the woods but when he heard a scream he knew that it came from his house. Blaze ran with all his speed and arrived to see his mom and brother lying face dead. He looked over and saw two guys with swords. One of their swords was bloody. Seeing this Blaze flew into a rage with tears in his eyes. Then a red aura flowed vieontly around him. Scared but mad he saw one of the assasins charge at him but stood there in awe as the sword snapped in half when it made contact with him. Sure he was surprised but not as surprised as the assassin whom attacked him. Just then Blaze punched the assassin and was weirded out as he saw the assassin fly through the wall. He stood there looking at his fist while the assassin pretty much **** his pants (the expression he didn’t really make a boom boom in his undie’s). After that the other assassin suffered the brutal punch.
Blaze sat there on his bed thinking to himself and asking himself questions like (what do I do now? Where do I go? And were did that strength come from?) he looked over to the fridge and saw a piece of paper on top of the fridge. He walked over there and grabed it when he looked at it he saw his mom’s handwriting.
Dear Blaze,
I don’t know how I am right now but in this letter I must explain. I knew this would all happen and I know your wondering how your so strong. Well I did too but I found out your saiyan a powerful race whom is far stronger than any human could ever become in eternity. My son im very sorry to say but I don’t know were to tell you to go or what to do. I guess you must choose your own path from now on
Love, Mom
Blaze knew that he could survive in the woods so that’s where he went.
When Blaze was 14 he had learned how to fly and has become immensely stronger including the ka-me-ha-me-ha technique an old man taught him. And from then Blaze’s Legend began and turned into my comic THE BLAZE CHRONICLES.
Well after that he tried to resume his life and ended up going to a school but it was somehow an evil school. Well when he got there he was paired with roommates. The first roommate was a vampire named Count.d or His full name is Count Draculous. Now I wont go into detail but this boy is so stypis he makes rocks look like Einstein. His encouragement is tacos he will do anything for tacos and If you piss him off he enters vampirism mode a mode that makes him smart stronger faster but he can burn in the sun while in this mode. This school is also where he met guy who will soon play a big part. He met guy in the big school tournament. Guy is arouge or you could say a thief he lived in the desert stopping people and taking their money. Now guy wouldn’t kill anybody but he would harm them. In the tournament Blaze underestimated Guy and entered a world of pain. Blaze was on defense until he turned into a super saiyan. Guy thought about giving up but wouldn’t he would keep going in resulting of him being beaten.
Now after the whole Guy thing Blaze one day was chillin at the beach. Then a mysterious blonde boy about Blazes age appered and just began to attack blaze. After it looked like this kid beat blaze he stood still and cracked a smile. He explained to Blaze he was testing his strength because this kids parents was killed by a man named Yakuza and he wanted to get revenge. The boy’s name was Zeo and Blaze with his good and pure heart couldn’t refuse.
Oh and one more thing another person from evil school………………Black 13 the sister of Count.D. She is really dark and when you stand near her you cant help but shiver with a cold fear down your spine.
Now around the time Blaze was 17 Vegeta had challenged him to a fight. During the fight Blaze told Vegeta “This is a fight to the death isn’t it?”. Vegeta Chuckled and threw a ball of energy into the sky turning into Oharazu (A big monkey) And ended up killing Blaze. He finally succeeded in world domination. Now Blaze already had a halo and when you die with a halo your gone for good wiped right out of the history books. 3 years later Blaze awoke to find a dragon looking being and apparently this creature is a spirit of Blazes ancestors.|||didnt even read that.
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Blaze’s Bio
Blaze how do I explain him? I guess I should tell you how he was born. O.O. Blaze was found by a woman who was exploring in the cave of the seven sage temples. The seven sage’s each had their own element and Blaze was found in the fire sage’s room. He pretty much never knew that he had incredible strength but one day would change all of that.
One day when Blaze was just chillin in the woods carving a stick. Blaze at this time is 8 years old and is like a forest kid he sleeps in trees pretty much spends his day wandering in the woods but when he heard a scream he knew that it came from his house. Blaze ran with all his speed and arrived to see his mom and brother lying face dead. He looked over and saw two guys with swords. One of their swords was bloody. Seeing this Blaze flew into a rage with tears in his eyes. Then a red aura flowed vieontly around him. Scared but mad he saw one of the assasins charge at him but stood there in awe as the sword snapped in half when it made contact with him. Sure he was surprised but not as surprised as the assassin whom attacked him. Just then Blaze punched the assassin and was weirded out as he saw the assassin fly through the wall. He stood there looking at his fist while the assassin pretty much **** his pants (the expression he didn’t really make a boom boom in his undie’s). After that the other assassin suffered the brutal punch.
Blaze sat there on his bed thinking to himself and asking himself questions like (what do I do now? Where do I go? And were did that strength come from?) he looked over to the fridge and saw a piece of paper on top of the fridge. He walked over there and grabed it when he looked at it he saw his mom’s handwriting.
Dear Blaze,
I don’t know how I am right now but in this letter I must explain. I knew this would all happen and I know your wondering how your so strong. Well I did too but I found out your saiyan a powerful race whom is far stronger than any human could ever become in eternity. My son im very sorry to say but I don’t know were to tell you to go or what to do. I guess you must choose your own path from now on
Love, Mom
Blaze knew that he could survive in the woods so that’s where he went.
When Blaze was 14 he had learned how to fly and has become immensely stronger including the ka-me-ha-me-ha technique an old man taught him. And from then Blaze’s Legend began and turned into my comic THE BLAZE CHRONICLES.
Well after that he tried to resume his life and ended up going to a school but it was somehow an evil school. Well when he got there he was paired with roommates. The first roommate was a vampire named Count.d or His full name is Count Draculous. Now I wont go into detail but this boy is so stypis he makes rocks look like Einstein. His encouragement is tacos he will do anything for tacos and If you piss him off he enters vampirism mode a mode that makes him smart stronger faster but he can burn in the sun while in this mode. This school is also where he met guy who will soon play a big part. He met guy in the big school tournament. Guy is arouge or you could say a thief he lived in the desert stopping people and taking their money. Now guy wouldn’t kill anybody but he would harm them. In the tournament Blaze underestimated Guy and entered a world of pain. Blaze was on defense until he turned into a super saiyan. Guy thought about giving up but wouldn’t he would keep going in resulting of him being beaten.
Now after the whole Guy thing Blaze one day was chillin at the beach. Then a mysterious blonde boy about Blazes age appered and just began to attack blaze. After it looked like this kid beat blaze he stood still and cracked a smile. He explained to Blaze he was testing his strength because this kids parents was killed by a man named Yakuza and he wanted to get revenge. The boy’s name was Zeo and Blaze with his good and pure heart couldn’t refuse.
Oh and one more thing another person from evil school………………Black 13 the sister of Count.D. She is really dark and when you stand near her you cant help but shiver with a cold fear down your spine.
Now around the time Blaze was 17 Vegeta had challenged him to a fight. During the fight Blaze told Vegeta “This is a fight to the death isn’t it?”. Vegeta Chuckled and threw a ball of energy into the sky turning into Oharazu (A big monkey) And ended up killing Blaze. He finally succeeded in world domination. Now Blaze already had a halo and when you die with a halo your gone for good wiped right out of the history books. 3 years later Blaze awoke to find a dragon looking being and apparently this creature is a spirit of Blazes ancestors.|||didnt even read that.
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Plot help? Going anywhere?
Alright. Here%26#039;s the first chapter:
Dear Past,
Hey. My name is Lane Peters, and I%26#039;m a fourteen-year-old zoner girl. No, not some druggie, like you twenty-first century people might think. What do I mean by %26quot;you people%26quot;? I mean that I come from, you guessed it, the future. (shock!)
Now, now, before we get ahead of ourselves, this isn%26#039;t a joke, and it%26#039;s not from that movie. This is the year 2046. I have no idea what year this letter will come, or to whom, so DO NOT LOSE, and DO NOT. THROW. AWAY. Be careful.
Right this moment, I%26#039;m writing down on one of the few last sheets of paper on the universe. (I only have so much room, so please excuse my teeny-tiny handwriting.)
A zoner is someone who lives on the very fringes of the Districts. They may have been part of the rebellion, or just plain ran away when things went downhill. We don%26#039;t really care for the stupid Districts, so we would rather spend what little life we have left to spend running away from the Collectors.
Things in your life span are quickly losing their precious time. Think things are bad there? Try the future. Oil has ran out, an Earth War is going on, and people have gone insane. In the U.S., which I%26#039;m presuming you live in, there are three Districts. They are hidden safely in Kansas, in between burned and broken cities. Underground. But dang, it%26#039;s strict there. Only whispers are allowed to be spoken, school has been completely cut out, and every single person works for the government. Yeah, that%26#039;s right, no more any %26quot;the government works for the people!%26quot; crap.
Currently, Diedrick Faez is the President. Or King, if you prefer. The total population of Underground Diedrick Town is around...sixty-thousand? Yes, around there. Us zoners have decided to risk it above ground, having to narrowly avoid the Collectors every day. Yuck. Just writing the name down makes me shiver in disgust. Having many groups, they%26#039;re able to spread out across the U.S. and cover much land. They do this so they can ravage anything they walk through, capture any stray human, and force them to be their slave. That%26#039;s what happened to most of my family.
But enough. Everyone needs your help, whether you think you can, or think you can%26#039;t. Save us! Set us free! Change the past, salvage the future. I, and many others, are counting on you. You%26#039;re all we%26#039;ve got.
WARNING: Never, never, ever, ever show this to authoritative positions. This means the police, the governor, anyone you cannot trust. Actually, scratch that. You can only trust yourself.
Now how to go about saving the world and such? (It%26#039;s not going to be easy, I can tell you that much). You must somehow, maybe even singlehandedly, get rid of the Paiyley Olridge Oregon Plant. It%26#039;s a large nuclear power plant, somewhere inside of Oregon. This very plant ends up destroying basically, the whole world. (I%26#039;m not crazy, the air gets so polluted, and the rest is a mystery to me beyond that.)
I only know so much, but now you know too. So please, gather your courage, forget the present, and save us. Good luck, and may God be with you.
Lane
Lane reads over the carefully written letter again. It had taken weeks just to make it legible because, after all, not a single person has written on paper for over ten years.
%26quot;It%26#039;s time to go!%26quot; Kiri whispers intently, %26quot;The Collectors eastern group is heading our way.%26quot;
%26quot;Okay. Be right there.%26quot;
Lane stashes the letter inside the high-tech Jumper, waves goodbye, and follows Kiri outside the door, looking back anxiously to see if the machine worked.
Because the fate of the future was in that note.|||hey that was actually pretty good. I mean the whole, future, post-apocalyptic thing is a little unoriginal for a sci-fi story but I like the beginnning. Keep writing. I think this could end being really good.
Dear Past,
Hey. My name is Lane Peters, and I%26#039;m a fourteen-year-old zoner girl. No, not some druggie, like you twenty-first century people might think. What do I mean by %26quot;you people%26quot;? I mean that I come from, you guessed it, the future. (shock!)
Now, now, before we get ahead of ourselves, this isn%26#039;t a joke, and it%26#039;s not from that movie. This is the year 2046. I have no idea what year this letter will come, or to whom, so DO NOT LOSE, and DO NOT. THROW. AWAY. Be careful.
Right this moment, I%26#039;m writing down on one of the few last sheets of paper on the universe. (I only have so much room, so please excuse my teeny-tiny handwriting.)
A zoner is someone who lives on the very fringes of the Districts. They may have been part of the rebellion, or just plain ran away when things went downhill. We don%26#039;t really care for the stupid Districts, so we would rather spend what little life we have left to spend running away from the Collectors.
Things in your life span are quickly losing their precious time. Think things are bad there? Try the future. Oil has ran out, an Earth War is going on, and people have gone insane. In the U.S., which I%26#039;m presuming you live in, there are three Districts. They are hidden safely in Kansas, in between burned and broken cities. Underground. But dang, it%26#039;s strict there. Only whispers are allowed to be spoken, school has been completely cut out, and every single person works for the government. Yeah, that%26#039;s right, no more any %26quot;the government works for the people!%26quot; crap.
Currently, Diedrick Faez is the President. Or King, if you prefer. The total population of Underground Diedrick Town is around...sixty-thousand? Yes, around there. Us zoners have decided to risk it above ground, having to narrowly avoid the Collectors every day. Yuck. Just writing the name down makes me shiver in disgust. Having many groups, they%26#039;re able to spread out across the U.S. and cover much land. They do this so they can ravage anything they walk through, capture any stray human, and force them to be their slave. That%26#039;s what happened to most of my family.
But enough. Everyone needs your help, whether you think you can, or think you can%26#039;t. Save us! Set us free! Change the past, salvage the future. I, and many others, are counting on you. You%26#039;re all we%26#039;ve got.
WARNING: Never, never, ever, ever show this to authoritative positions. This means the police, the governor, anyone you cannot trust. Actually, scratch that. You can only trust yourself.
Now how to go about saving the world and such? (It%26#039;s not going to be easy, I can tell you that much). You must somehow, maybe even singlehandedly, get rid of the Paiyley Olridge Oregon Plant. It%26#039;s a large nuclear power plant, somewhere inside of Oregon. This very plant ends up destroying basically, the whole world. (I%26#039;m not crazy, the air gets so polluted, and the rest is a mystery to me beyond that.)
I only know so much, but now you know too. So please, gather your courage, forget the present, and save us. Good luck, and may God be with you.
Lane
Lane reads over the carefully written letter again. It had taken weeks just to make it legible because, after all, not a single person has written on paper for over ten years.
%26quot;It%26#039;s time to go!%26quot; Kiri whispers intently, %26quot;The Collectors eastern group is heading our way.%26quot;
%26quot;Okay. Be right there.%26quot;
Lane stashes the letter inside the high-tech Jumper, waves goodbye, and follows Kiri outside the door, looking back anxiously to see if the machine worked.
Because the fate of the future was in that note.|||hey that was actually pretty good. I mean the whole, future, post-apocalyptic thing is a little unoriginal for a sci-fi story but I like the beginnning. Keep writing. I think this could end being really good.
What did she mean by this? Was she hitting on me?
An RA is the moderator of a college dorm hall. She%26#039;s a junior, we%26#039;re freshmen.
We%26#039;ve been putting notes on our RAs door in girl%26#039;s handwriting and pretty much hitting on her. We don%26#039;t say who it is. In the notes we%26#039;ve asked if she%26#039;s bisexual,told her we think she%26#039;s hot, and gave suggestions as to how she could improve as an RA so that she didn%26#039;t think it was a joke.
My friend wrote on her board last night, %26quot;You are really really hot. Call me babe! 852-489-1233 Meet ya in the showers!%26quot; so I made a note that said, %26quot;hey, who%26#039;s the creep that put their number on your board? I had thought we weren%26#039;t allowed to hit on the RAs. Did this change?%26quot;
and she wrote on the board, %26quot;Haha, there are neither rules for that or against it. I have info for you if you want it. Stop by%26quot;
Why was she asking me to stop by? I didn%26#039;t leave a name, and it was completely different handwriting than my own, but there%26#039;s a chance she%26#039;s caught on to who it was....
Some people on here had mentioned that they thought she was bicurious for me when I asked other questions about her. She had responded on her board to that one note we left about her being bisexual by saying, %26quot;I am NOT but I totally support it.%26quot; She also has a serious bf but he lives in Canada and we%26#039;re in Arizona. Was she hitting on the person who wrote it(me)? Maybe trying to find out who%26#039;s been writing the notes? What do you think?
BTW, she had pretended to strip and put her boobs all in my face(to which I leaned back and made a face), she tried taping a paper to my chest and was pressing on my boobs to get it to stay, she wrote London Bridge by Fergie on my board,%26quot;Kristin: how come e%26#039;ry time you come around my london london bridge wanna go down like...%26quot;, she%26#039;s called me exotic a few times, she mentioned that if she ever got with a girl it would be Jessica Alba because she gives her butterflies. She also liked Halle Berry and Megan Fox(said her slutiness was hot).|||I think this girl is hot for you lol. If you are curious then see what happens. If not then tell her to stop harassing you :) because you are not interested.
Answer me?|||wants you duh|||From what I think I know, when a person is hitting on you that means you flirt or start to get close to a person because the person seems attractive and %26quot;hot%26quot;...But I also think that the person is trying to get back at the person(you) who wrote it, or perhaps she actually fell for it....|||OH MY GOD! Dude, she totally has the hots for you! just go for her! I think I know what she%26#039;s gunna say... or if you don%26#039;t wanna ask say %26quot;wanna go with me to the shops%26quot; and but her a bottle of coke or something... You have so gotta go for her before she turns to someone else!
We%26#039;ve been putting notes on our RAs door in girl%26#039;s handwriting and pretty much hitting on her. We don%26#039;t say who it is. In the notes we%26#039;ve asked if she%26#039;s bisexual,told her we think she%26#039;s hot, and gave suggestions as to how she could improve as an RA so that she didn%26#039;t think it was a joke.
My friend wrote on her board last night, %26quot;You are really really hot. Call me babe! 852-489-1233 Meet ya in the showers!%26quot; so I made a note that said, %26quot;hey, who%26#039;s the creep that put their number on your board? I had thought we weren%26#039;t allowed to hit on the RAs. Did this change?%26quot;
and she wrote on the board, %26quot;Haha, there are neither rules for that or against it. I have info for you if you want it. Stop by%26quot;
Why was she asking me to stop by? I didn%26#039;t leave a name, and it was completely different handwriting than my own, but there%26#039;s a chance she%26#039;s caught on to who it was....
Some people on here had mentioned that they thought she was bicurious for me when I asked other questions about her. She had responded on her board to that one note we left about her being bisexual by saying, %26quot;I am NOT but I totally support it.%26quot; She also has a serious bf but he lives in Canada and we%26#039;re in Arizona. Was she hitting on the person who wrote it(me)? Maybe trying to find out who%26#039;s been writing the notes? What do you think?
BTW, she had pretended to strip and put her boobs all in my face(to which I leaned back and made a face), she tried taping a paper to my chest and was pressing on my boobs to get it to stay, she wrote London Bridge by Fergie on my board,%26quot;Kristin: how come e%26#039;ry time you come around my london london bridge wanna go down like...%26quot;, she%26#039;s called me exotic a few times, she mentioned that if she ever got with a girl it would be Jessica Alba because she gives her butterflies. She also liked Halle Berry and Megan Fox(said her slutiness was hot).|||I think this girl is hot for you lol. If you are curious then see what happens. If not then tell her to stop harassing you :) because you are not interested.
Answer me?|||wants you duh|||From what I think I know, when a person is hitting on you that means you flirt or start to get close to a person because the person seems attractive and %26quot;hot%26quot;...But I also think that the person is trying to get back at the person(you) who wrote it, or perhaps she actually fell for it....|||OH MY GOD! Dude, she totally has the hots for you! just go for her! I think I know what she%26#039;s gunna say... or if you don%26#039;t wanna ask say %26quot;wanna go with me to the shops%26quot; and but her a bottle of coke or something... You have so gotta go for her before she turns to someone else!
What did she mean by this?
An RA is the moderator of a college dorm hall. She%26#039;s a junior, we%26#039;re freshmen.
We%26#039;ve been putting notes on our RAs door in girl%26#039;s handwriting and pretty much hitting on her. We don%26#039;t say who it is. In the notes we%26#039;ve asked if she%26#039;s bisexual,told her we think she%26#039;s hot, asked how to use a double ended dildo, and gave suggestions as to how she could improve as an RA so that she didn%26#039;t think it was a joke.
My friend wrote on her board last night, %26quot;You are really really hot. Call me babe! 852-489-1233 Meet ya in the showers!%26quot; so I made a note that said, %26quot;hey, who%26#039;s the creep that put their number on your board? I had thought we weren%26#039;t allowed to hit on the RAs. Did this change?%26quot;
and she wrote on the board, %26quot;Haha, there are neither rules for that or against it. I have info for you if you want it. Stop by%26quot;
Why was she asking me to stop by? I didn%26#039;t leave a name, and it was completely different handwriting than my own, but there%26#039;s a chance she%26#039;s caught on to who it was...me.
Some people on here had mentioned that they thought she was bicurious for me when I asked other questions about her. She had responded on her board to that one note we left about her being bisexual by saying, %26quot;I am NOT but I totally support it.%26quot; She also has a serious bf but he lives in Canada and we%26#039;re in Arizona. Was she hitting on the person who wrote it(me)? Maybe trying to find out who%26#039;s been writing the notes? What do you think?|||I would be kind of skeptical about the whole thing because you wouldn%26#039;t want it all to backfire and you get in trouble. What you%26#039;re doing could be called harrassment. If you are attracted to her, just step to her and be honest. You may be surprised!!!!|||I think she wants to know who is writing the notes, and she may suspect it%26#039;s you.
Go see her and be prepared to tell her that you are just not into it. Odds are if you try it you will like it.
College is for fun and adventure, be careful, be safe and enjoy! Go see her.|||That whole situation just sounds totally stupid and so immature. Your RA is higher up, above you. You shouldn%26#039;t treat her like that. Would you wanted to be hassled like that yourself?
You are setting yourself up for trouble. Have fun with it when you get caught, you deserve it.
We%26#039;ve been putting notes on our RAs door in girl%26#039;s handwriting and pretty much hitting on her. We don%26#039;t say who it is. In the notes we%26#039;ve asked if she%26#039;s bisexual,told her we think she%26#039;s hot, asked how to use a double ended dildo, and gave suggestions as to how she could improve as an RA so that she didn%26#039;t think it was a joke.
My friend wrote on her board last night, %26quot;You are really really hot. Call me babe! 852-489-1233 Meet ya in the showers!%26quot; so I made a note that said, %26quot;hey, who%26#039;s the creep that put their number on your board? I had thought we weren%26#039;t allowed to hit on the RAs. Did this change?%26quot;
and she wrote on the board, %26quot;Haha, there are neither rules for that or against it. I have info for you if you want it. Stop by%26quot;
Why was she asking me to stop by? I didn%26#039;t leave a name, and it was completely different handwriting than my own, but there%26#039;s a chance she%26#039;s caught on to who it was...me.
Some people on here had mentioned that they thought she was bicurious for me when I asked other questions about her. She had responded on her board to that one note we left about her being bisexual by saying, %26quot;I am NOT but I totally support it.%26quot; She also has a serious bf but he lives in Canada and we%26#039;re in Arizona. Was she hitting on the person who wrote it(me)? Maybe trying to find out who%26#039;s been writing the notes? What do you think?|||I would be kind of skeptical about the whole thing because you wouldn%26#039;t want it all to backfire and you get in trouble. What you%26#039;re doing could be called harrassment. If you are attracted to her, just step to her and be honest. You may be surprised!!!!|||I think she wants to know who is writing the notes, and she may suspect it%26#039;s you.
Go see her and be prepared to tell her that you are just not into it. Odds are if you try it you will like it.
College is for fun and adventure, be careful, be safe and enjoy! Go see her.|||That whole situation just sounds totally stupid and so immature. Your RA is higher up, above you. You shouldn%26#039;t treat her like that. Would you wanted to be hassled like that yourself?
You are setting yourself up for trouble. Have fun with it when you get caught, you deserve it.
Do I have Asperger syndrome?
Ok so I was reading up on Asperger syndrome and I noticed I answered %26quot;yes%26quot; to like all the symptoms. I even took a test and got 40...they said if you got over 32 to go see a docter.
Here are some of the symptoms...
Not pick up on social cues and may lack inborn social skills, such as being able to read others%26#039; body language, start or maintain a conversation, and take turns talking. %26lt;---I can not read body language to save my life and I also can%26#039;t keep a convo going at all.
Dislike any changes in routines. %26lt;---I hate hate hate changes in routines!!! As a child my mother told me I would cry if something change in my life like bedtime,us moving etc.
Appear to lack empathy. %26lt;---I don%26#039;t really know how to handle a crying friend or a crying baby...so I guess I lack empathy.
Be unable to recognize subtle differences in speech tone, pitch, and accent that alter the meaning of others鈥?speech. Thus, your child may not understand a joke or may take a sarcastic comment literally. Likewise, his or her speech may be flat and difficult to understand because it lacks tone, pitch, and accent. %26lt;---I don%26#039;t really get some jokes and when I do I%26#039;m the last person to get it and sarcastim fly right pass me =/
Have a formal style of speaking that is advanced for his or her age. For example, the child may use the word %26quot;beckon%26quot; instead of %26quot;call%26quot; or the word %26quot;return%26quot; instead of %26quot;come back.%26quot; %26lt;---My mother tells me I do this all the time.
Avoid eye contact or stare at others. %26lt;--I can%26#039;t look a person in the eyes and I do find myself staring at other.
Have unusual facial expressions or postures. %26lt;----I have horrid posture.
Be preoccupied with only one or few interests, which he or she may be very knowledgeable about. Many children with Asperger%26#039;s syndrome are overly interested in parts of a whole or in unusual activities, such as designing houses, drawing highly detailed scenes, or studying astronomy. They may show an unusual interest in certain topics such as snakes, names of stars, or dinosaurs.%26lt;----Me all the way. Mines acting and stars.
Talk a lot, usually about a favorite subject. One-sided conversations are common. Internal thoughts are often verbalized. %26lt;---I go on and on about my favorite things.
Have delayed motor development. Your child may be late in learning to use a fork or spoon, ride a bike, or catch a ball. He or she may have an awkward walk. Handwriting is often poor. %26lt;---I could%26#039;ent ride a bike till I was like 9.
Have heightened sensitivity and become overstimulated by loud noises, lights, or strong tastes or textures.%26lt;---My mom also told me I hated the feeling of water and sand when I was little. I also was scared of loud music up till the time I was 10.
Is it possible I have it? sould I see a docter?|||it%26#039;s sounds very much like AS, do you feel awkward in social situations and do you prefer to be alone? i think you have some of the symptoms of it unless you are just hoping so bad that you have it that you are imagining these symptoms and maybe you just have interns syndrome. but i am going to go with what you%26#039;re saying is genuine and i think that maybe you should go get it checked out or something.|||No...I don%26#039;t think so. I just think your are socially awkward.|||I%26#039;m not a doctor, I say go to a doctor and they can refer you to a specialist.|||Those web tests are unreliable. The symptoms are supposed to be interpreted by a qualified professional. Other people might misunderstand what the symptoms really are.
%26quot;Having horrible posture%26quot; not what they mean. They are talking about weird body movements like walking around flapping your hands or with your arms wrapped around your head.
Everybody can go on an on about their favorite topics.
Most kids hate bedtime or moving. By %26quot;change in routine%26quot; they mean something like having to eat a half hour later and it makes you so upset you have a panic attack.
Did you ever see the movie %26quot;Rain Man?%26quot; That%26#039;s pretty much how people with the disorder usually behave.
For some reason, a lot of people %26quot;want to have%26quot; Asperger%26#039;s Disorder. Apparently, because they think it means they are geniuses. I have seen where a lot of people on the web write things like %26quot;Bill Gates has Asperger%26#039;s.%26quot; I have seen Mr. Gates on TV and he doesn%26#039;t act a person with Asperger%26#039;s in the least.
Go see a doctor if you really want to. I doubt if you have Asperger%26#039;s, though.|||You could have it, but maybe you are over representing your symptoms because you are paranoid, but it is a possibility.
Many of your %26quot;symptoms%26quot; are not that abnormal.
Your teachers would have noticed. I volunteer in a school and there are a couple children in the classes with this, and they are 8, so I think from all your visits with doctors over time, they would have noticed.
And yes you like acting and stars, but is it obsessive and compulsive to the point where thats all you talk about, and you know everything about everything there is to know about stars and acting?
Lots of people have bad posture, and use different words when they speak.
And because you do not know how to handle when someone cries does not mean you lack empathy. It just means you are unfamiliar with that.
You may or may not have it, you may have asperger like qualities...
if it is bothering you a lot, get tested.
but do they even do anything for aspergers?
meds or anything?
so how would knowing you have it change you?|||If you have it then so do I, lol. I have basicaly the same stuff but I don%26#039;t have it, my older brother does though so I might have picked some of the quirks up from him.
1. I had to be taught by my mother what all the basic stuff was (i.e. arms crossed= back off)
2. I hate it when we move, I cry and get really emotional but when I%26#039;m here I hate to leave.
3. %26amp; 4 I don%26#039;t have! In fact the opposite!
5. I%26#039;ve got a very formal way of talking around my parents and new people but not friends. Once I accidently said a weird word and my friends were like %26quot;Do people still use that word?%26quot; I can also pass my vocab tests without studying at ALL!
6.- Don%26#039;t have
7. Yes!! Totally!
8. Completely, mines reading and t.v shows/ manga
9. Yes! talking about Manga/ Books/ tv shows; lol
10. I learnt to ride a bike at 7 then forgot and had to be retaught (rofl)
11. Nope
Feel comforted now? You probably don%26#039;t have it.
So maybe you%26#039;re just normal. Does anyone notice the way you act, do you have friends? Or do you REALLY! want friends but seam to never have them? When people talk to you do you stare off and accidentally ignore them, or just don%26#039;t %26#039;compute%26#039; when people talk to you. Have any of your teachers noticed?
My brother was at his new school for three months and his teachers instantly knew there was something different about him. After they tested him it turns out his IQ is WAY above average and he has Asperger syndrome.
You should defiantly ask someone, if you still go to school they can provide you with tests (you don%26#039;t take them your parents do) to see if you have it.
Here are some of the symptoms...
Not pick up on social cues and may lack inborn social skills, such as being able to read others%26#039; body language, start or maintain a conversation, and take turns talking. %26lt;---I can not read body language to save my life and I also can%26#039;t keep a convo going at all.
Dislike any changes in routines. %26lt;---I hate hate hate changes in routines!!! As a child my mother told me I would cry if something change in my life like bedtime,us moving etc.
Appear to lack empathy. %26lt;---I don%26#039;t really know how to handle a crying friend or a crying baby...so I guess I lack empathy.
Be unable to recognize subtle differences in speech tone, pitch, and accent that alter the meaning of others鈥?speech. Thus, your child may not understand a joke or may take a sarcastic comment literally. Likewise, his or her speech may be flat and difficult to understand because it lacks tone, pitch, and accent. %26lt;---I don%26#039;t really get some jokes and when I do I%26#039;m the last person to get it and sarcastim fly right pass me =/
Have a formal style of speaking that is advanced for his or her age. For example, the child may use the word %26quot;beckon%26quot; instead of %26quot;call%26quot; or the word %26quot;return%26quot; instead of %26quot;come back.%26quot; %26lt;---My mother tells me I do this all the time.
Avoid eye contact or stare at others. %26lt;--I can%26#039;t look a person in the eyes and I do find myself staring at other.
Have unusual facial expressions or postures. %26lt;----I have horrid posture.
Be preoccupied with only one or few interests, which he or she may be very knowledgeable about. Many children with Asperger%26#039;s syndrome are overly interested in parts of a whole or in unusual activities, such as designing houses, drawing highly detailed scenes, or studying astronomy. They may show an unusual interest in certain topics such as snakes, names of stars, or dinosaurs.%26lt;----Me all the way. Mines acting and stars.
Talk a lot, usually about a favorite subject. One-sided conversations are common. Internal thoughts are often verbalized. %26lt;---I go on and on about my favorite things.
Have delayed motor development. Your child may be late in learning to use a fork or spoon, ride a bike, or catch a ball. He or she may have an awkward walk. Handwriting is often poor. %26lt;---I could%26#039;ent ride a bike till I was like 9.
Have heightened sensitivity and become overstimulated by loud noises, lights, or strong tastes or textures.%26lt;---My mom also told me I hated the feeling of water and sand when I was little. I also was scared of loud music up till the time I was 10.
Is it possible I have it? sould I see a docter?|||it%26#039;s sounds very much like AS, do you feel awkward in social situations and do you prefer to be alone? i think you have some of the symptoms of it unless you are just hoping so bad that you have it that you are imagining these symptoms and maybe you just have interns syndrome. but i am going to go with what you%26#039;re saying is genuine and i think that maybe you should go get it checked out or something.|||No...I don%26#039;t think so. I just think your are socially awkward.|||I%26#039;m not a doctor, I say go to a doctor and they can refer you to a specialist.|||Those web tests are unreliable. The symptoms are supposed to be interpreted by a qualified professional. Other people might misunderstand what the symptoms really are.
%26quot;Having horrible posture%26quot; not what they mean. They are talking about weird body movements like walking around flapping your hands or with your arms wrapped around your head.
Everybody can go on an on about their favorite topics.
Most kids hate bedtime or moving. By %26quot;change in routine%26quot; they mean something like having to eat a half hour later and it makes you so upset you have a panic attack.
Did you ever see the movie %26quot;Rain Man?%26quot; That%26#039;s pretty much how people with the disorder usually behave.
For some reason, a lot of people %26quot;want to have%26quot; Asperger%26#039;s Disorder. Apparently, because they think it means they are geniuses. I have seen where a lot of people on the web write things like %26quot;Bill Gates has Asperger%26#039;s.%26quot; I have seen Mr. Gates on TV and he doesn%26#039;t act a person with Asperger%26#039;s in the least.
Go see a doctor if you really want to. I doubt if you have Asperger%26#039;s, though.|||You could have it, but maybe you are over representing your symptoms because you are paranoid, but it is a possibility.
Many of your %26quot;symptoms%26quot; are not that abnormal.
Your teachers would have noticed. I volunteer in a school and there are a couple children in the classes with this, and they are 8, so I think from all your visits with doctors over time, they would have noticed.
And yes you like acting and stars, but is it obsessive and compulsive to the point where thats all you talk about, and you know everything about everything there is to know about stars and acting?
Lots of people have bad posture, and use different words when they speak.
And because you do not know how to handle when someone cries does not mean you lack empathy. It just means you are unfamiliar with that.
You may or may not have it, you may have asperger like qualities...
if it is bothering you a lot, get tested.
but do they even do anything for aspergers?
meds or anything?
so how would knowing you have it change you?|||If you have it then so do I, lol. I have basicaly the same stuff but I don%26#039;t have it, my older brother does though so I might have picked some of the quirks up from him.
1. I had to be taught by my mother what all the basic stuff was (i.e. arms crossed= back off)
2. I hate it when we move, I cry and get really emotional but when I%26#039;m here I hate to leave.
3. %26amp; 4 I don%26#039;t have! In fact the opposite!
5. I%26#039;ve got a very formal way of talking around my parents and new people but not friends. Once I accidently said a weird word and my friends were like %26quot;Do people still use that word?%26quot; I can also pass my vocab tests without studying at ALL!
6.- Don%26#039;t have
7. Yes!! Totally!
8. Completely, mines reading and t.v shows/ manga
9. Yes! talking about Manga/ Books/ tv shows; lol
10. I learnt to ride a bike at 7 then forgot and had to be retaught (rofl)
11. Nope
Feel comforted now? You probably don%26#039;t have it.
So maybe you%26#039;re just normal. Does anyone notice the way you act, do you have friends? Or do you REALLY! want friends but seam to never have them? When people talk to you do you stare off and accidentally ignore them, or just don%26#039;t %26#039;compute%26#039; when people talk to you. Have any of your teachers noticed?
My brother was at his new school for three months and his teachers instantly knew there was something different about him. After they tested him it turns out his IQ is WAY above average and he has Asperger syndrome.
You should defiantly ask someone, if you still go to school they can provide you with tests (you don%26#039;t take them your parents do) to see if you have it.
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